Where are all the femmes in Oslo or generally Norway? 😭
Genuine question from a danish masc lesbian living in Oslo.
Dating apps have worked for me before so this isn’t an “apps suck” post however I reach a point where I see the same people over the months.
I also mostly prefer meeting people off the apps literally anything that feels more natural.
But…where are all the femmes?
I swear I’ll be out in Oslo see the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen, and then spend the next hour wondering if there is any chance in the world she is queer. And Janteloven doesn’t exactly make it easier…
So is there some secret femme radar I missed?
Mascs seem pretty easy to spot but femmes? I genuinely can’t tell. Are you all taken? Hiding? Or is Norway just full of incredibly fashionable straight women confusing the hell out of me?
Mostly curious if anyone else feels the same and if there are places events where queer femmes actually hang out outside of dating apps please tell meh!
Signed
A confused masc 🫡