Heyy, 37F looking for connection or friends, whichever works out
I’m closer to Encino just fyi. I’m in a rebuilding phase of life and need everything again, like friends, work, a man lol. I do have a cat though. And a family and siblings. And a popcornopolis addiction. And my imagination 🌗
I’ve been a huge lone wolf lately. I go about my business and run my errands like the gym, making Amazon returns, pausing at my reflection in every surface I pass, and feeling the weight of existence at red lights. My last relationship was long distance so I’ve been in the habit of being on the phone a lot, usually from home lol. But need to change that! My social life is a few hobby groups on rotation, like book club, tennis, pickleball, other book club, a support group, and improv. I’m active in like 2 of these in a given week. Honestly, they’re ok, something about them isn’t very stimulating. I think it’s the people? 🙈
I’m an ambivert, cerebral, creative, and type as an enfp. I’m more of an extrovert but will also say my inner life is louder than my outer one. I’m definitely somewhat eccentric. In basic terms, I’m left leaning, middle eastern American, monotheistic and spiritual, decently fit shorty, feminist with strong humanist values, and everyone always thinks I’m way younger than I am.
I’m a lot more discerning at this point in my life about what work I want to do and who I let in. I’ve always desired to be surrounded by people who can actually see me, who I connect with deeply and who I respect or feel inspired by. If you have depth and soul and are intelligent, we will probably click. I love doing fun things and exploring juicy ideas with people I feel really connected to. I just want to live an organically vibrant and enriching life with beautiful humans. Willing to share pics if we vibe :).
Umm what else, I’ve been to therapy and deal with some things like overlapping adhd and cptsd, but I mean that’s just life for a called soul. I’m educated and my biggest stressor is keeping the vision for a new way to work that works for me (If you have a way to temporarily address this with me let me know… finding work is so rough right now). Not sure what else to share but feel free to ask!