r/LADating

The swiping grind is broken. It feels like 90% of the effort goes into dry, low-effort small talk that goes nowhere.

I'm building a tool to skip that. You set your preferences, and an AI agent handles the initial vetting and "vibe check" with other users for you. You only get notified when there’s a real, pre-warmed connection ready to talk.

We are slowly opening it up, but you can join the waitlist to get early access.

EDIT: This isn't chatbot dating. The AI just acts like a backend assistant doing the initial "vibe check" with other AI so you don't waste time on small talk—you only ever chat directly with real humans.

This is the weekly r4r (Redditor For Redditor) thread. It's a chance to introduce yourself and tell people what you're looking for. Be respectful, be honest, be safe. Protect your privacy, meet in public, and trust your instincts.

Feel free to browse and reply to others, but keep all interactions consensual and kind!

posting this on a whim lol. i am 22f coming out of a breakup… i wanna meet more lesbians rarrrr🗣️🗣️ just to hang out and vibe. no expectations. not too familiar with the la area, so maybe someone could show me around🗿👍 let’s go to some pride month events :D
i will not be responding to men 👎

I'm currently unable to commit to a formal relationship, but I need intimacy. I know that typical FWB relationships are often characterized by low restrictions. However, I care about safety and health very much, so exclusivity is essential. Please share some effective advice on how to find women who are interested in this type of relationship. Thanks a lot!!

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Anyone out there looking for genuine conversations and good company? Just looking to connect, vibe, and have a good time with real people.

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Hi,

I couldnt post in lar4r so here I am. I moved to LA recently for a new job. Due to some visa issues, I might have to leave soon (or not🤷‍♀️)

I want to explore museums, beaches, hiking trails and other budget friendly stuff in and around LA.

I'm pretty flexible with schedule and prefer weekdays to beat the crowds. Would prefer having some company while exploring Getty, La Brea, Science centers etc., (I don't know if people are still using etc, I'm old)

I'm a nerd. Like anime, manga, reading, sketching, astronomy, tech all sorts of nerdy stuff. Long walks on beach is my absolute favorite thing to do. Into psychedlics and exploring inner self.And in general a curious person. I'd love to learn about someone. And explore.

18+, older the better.

DM me if this interests you :)

Did anyone have a similar experience? Did it work out due to the distance? Should I give it a shot or you don't recommend it? Thanks for the advice!

Looking for a rich bf to travel to all of the Aman / Six Senses resorts across the world.. 🩷

Is there any hope for dating in LA in your early 20s? I hate dating apps and have deleted all my socials in hopes to find love organically. Ironically I'm posting this on reddit.. Where do I look for a partner? Am I cooked?

Hello Everyone!

I am looking for a good partner to work with us.

- Good income -

If you are interested, plz let me know

I really am over the money fishing guys are doing. Because of this i’m going to start charging a $350 deposit to take me out on a date.
Hopefully this gets rid of the dusties. What do you think?

Looking for someone to spend all my money on since the ex don’t want it anymore get it while it good .
Fishing
Anime
And food
First come first serve