r/LADating

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Some people chase excitement. I've learned that what truly matters is finding someone worth standing beside.

I've seen enough of life to know that trust isn't something you demand-it's something you earn. Loyalty isn't proven by words spoken in easy moments, but by the choices we make when things become difficult.

I won't pretend I've never been hurt. I have. Those experiences didn't make me give up on people; they taught me to recognize the difference between fleeting attention and genuine connection.

So if you've been searching for someone who listens before he speaks, who values honesty over games, and who believes the strongest bonds are built one conversation at a time, then perhaps our paths have crossed for a reason.

I'm the kind of man who enjoys sharing a meal, laughing over a favorite movie, losing track of time talking about life, or simply sitting together in comfortable silence. To me, the smallest moments often become the ones we remember the longest.

Trust means everything to me.

As two people get to know one another, mutual comfort naturally opens doors that strangers could never force open. I never rush that process, because the best connections aren't built overnight-they're built through consistency, respect, and choosing each other again and again.

If any of this speaks to you, then I'd enjoy hearing your story. I would also like to point out that I am very 420 friendly and don't mind sharing a drink or two, should it be of any consideration thereof.

Who knows?

Sometimes the most meaningful journeys begin with nothing more than saying hello.

Anyone free after 7pm today? F4F preferably but guys hmu just need to get some stress relief tbh

I’m a Latina looking for an Asian man. 🙈 (or friends too) it’s been hard to find a man (or friends) who likes a little spice, a cute cheerleader on the side, and more adventures in LA. Curvy, not fat! 5’5

I’m in SGV, and I like Coffee, Books, museums, libraries, plants, art. Not into the games or FWB/ONS scenarios. 🫠 sowwy!

Say hi 🙂 I might answer 😉

Where are those in the 40+ age range going out for dates that are alternatives to bars? I gave up alcohol after entering my 40s (42F) or are there any establishments that have a good mocktail menu?

come chill with me bored in La come play

I’m 32F. I don’t really like apps. Never really tried speed dating (willing to but just want testimonies though if it’s awkward or if its fun and works? Lol)

Like.. where are all of you? Haha!

**Age:** 32
**Gender:** Male
**Height:** 161 cm (5’3”)
**Weight:** \~70 kg
**Location:** Los Angeles, California, USA
**Willing to LDR:** Yes (if there’s a clear plan to eventually be together)
**Dietary Habits:** Flexible (I eat non-vegetarian food but respect all dietary preferences)
**Language:** Tamil & English
**Smoking/Drinking Habits:** No
**Smoking/Drinking in Partner:** Prefer non-smoker; occasional social drinking is okay
**Religious Orientation:** Hindu / Christian as an identity but I’m not religious
**Willing to Date Other Religion:** Yes
**Introduction**
Hi! I’m a Tamil guy currently living in California and working as a Test Manager/Architect in the tech industry. I’m someone who enjoys setting ambitious goals and working steadily toward them. Outside of work, I spend time investing, working out, gaming, cooking, exploring AI and emerging technologies, and occasionally planning trips.
I’m an introvert at first, but once I’m comfortable, I enjoy meaningful conversations, playful banter, and sharing everyday moments. I value honesty, loyalty, kindness, and emotional maturity more than appearances.
I’m looking for a genuine long-term relationship that can eventually lead to marriage. I believe the strongest relationships are built on friendship, trust, mutual respect, and supporting each other’s dreams.
**Minimum Expectations**
Looking for someone who is genuinely interested in a serious, long-term relationship.
Honest, kind, emotionally mature, and communicates openly.
Non-smoker.
Independent and ambitious
Willing to put effort into the relationship and grow together.
Height, profession, income, and caste are not important to me.
**End Note**
If you’re looking for something meaningful rather than casual and think we’d get along, feel free to send me a message. Even if we don’t end up being a match, I wish you the very best in finding your person.

Looking for the guy from the flight from Denver to Los Angeles on June 22, 2026.
I'm the girl who was sitting in the same row as you.
When we landed, you asked me something, but I was caught off guard and said something silly. After that we took the shuttle together and kept looking at each other. I wanted to come up and talk to you but lost you in the crowd...

Please message me 🥹

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Looking for girl to date in Sudbury

Looking to connect with someone. I really want to connect with someone to the point where we just do things together - running, road trips, trying out a restaurant, the beach, go to a fair, literally just have fun and enjoy life together.

If you’re also looking for something similar please message me. You never know, we may get along and have a great time. Listed as SFW because I’m not actively looking for it to go there but if it goes there naturally I’m not opposed. Just want to make sure there is a connection first.

I don’t have a type or preference so all are welcome

I’m a chubby Latina with thick thighs, a few tats, and an alt air. I’m bi, so females are welcomed to say hi. I love bi men, and gym bros are my favorite. No kids, just a dog.

Hello! I’m a writer, dog mom, leftist, and newish eastside resident looking to date semi seriously. I’d like to find an LTR but not looking to rush things. My age range is 35-50. Not looking for hookups.

About me: I like thrifting, dogs, and lifting weights. I don’t drink much but I like going out to breweries and chill bars. I hate cockroaches and hot weather. I’m childfree and I have a weird old dog.

I’m 5’6”, short wavy hair, glasses. I’m thick/curvy and have been working on building muscle for a couple years. Happy to exchange pics in DMs.

My ideal partner: a goofy leftist who likes to talk, who shares some of my general interests. I like people who are curious and talkative. Bonus points if you are ⛓️. No cops, ICE agents, defense contractors etc.

TL;DR: 40 year old leftist lady on east side seeks 35-50 year old leftist guy for dating/LTR!

Serious dating that is. I’m interested in men in their late 30’s to mid 40’s (sorry ladies! I am loved by the queer women in my life but unfortunately I don’t think I can handle the muff!).
Just to mention straight away- I don’t have any interest in hooking up right away, I left that back in my 20’s and all the STI’s I caught.
Anyway- I’m incredibly liberal (see bumper stickers on my car), so if that narrows down my pool, so be it. Happy for you to not be interested if that’s not something you like.
About me- ughhh, some people say I’m funny. I’m actually not that funny, i think im a bit on the spectrum. I’m southeast asian. Most people think I’m Filipina, I’m not.
I like the outdoors, when it’s not scorching hot out. I like small and large animals. I’m pretty crafty, artsy, multi-disciplinary kind of person. Going to zine and book art fairs are my favorite events. I love movies and tv. No body gore or horror movies though. You should see my tv and sound system. Sometimes I gym, sometimes I don’t. I like trying new foods when I’m not broke.
If any of this sounds even remotely interesting to you lol, dm me?