Nanny is doing a lot
Our nanny has been with us for just over 3 years and overall is great. We have had our fair share of issues in the past with tardiness and last minute call ins that sort of were chalked up to feeling a little too comfortable with the flexibility we have offered in the past and we addressed it and it’s been better for sure. But over the last few weeks she has been doing a lot, like cleaning our bedroom (definitely didn’t ask for that) and yesterday we got home and she had done all of mine and my wife’s laundry, cleaned my home office, and some other little things. I don’t want to sound ungrateful, but it feels a little weird to me. Like many adults, there are certainly things in our bedroom we don’t want our nanny seeing and laundry in the bin that isn’t just clothes we wore the day before…. My wife has just bought some new clothes that were in the bin and the nanny washed everything on hot since that’s how we do the kids stuff and then put EVERYTHING in the dryer. Jeans, sweaters, lulu pants, bras. I don’t know how to approach her without sounding ungrateful. She has seen that we have been extra busy and knows we are traveling the next few weekends and was trying to be helpful but it was just a bit more than I would hope for I guess especially given that it wasn’t the “right” way to wash like 6 pairs of lulu pants and bras.