AIAH
My oldest son got married in 2024. Side note I was a single parent the first 2 years of his life. I married someone when he was 3 years old and had 2 other children 18 months apart. We divorced 3 years later. Again… a single parent. We literally grew up together and went through ALL the BS. He married a girl whom he was best friends with in HS a decade later. After college blah, blah, blah. Mind you he was enlisted in the military at the time. His “wife” has been closer to my son’s stepmother their entire relationship. I’ve never been a helicopter parent. He’s a MAN! That’s how I raised him! I got completely iced out of the wedding and the planning then told by the stepmom that wasn’t her intention. As she was involved the entire time but never “thought” to involve me. My son and I haven’t talked since the wedding day 2 years ago! His wife does NOT care for me. She’s made that very clear their entire relationship. She “tolerated” me but once they were married, ALL COMMUNICATION with my son ceased. What do I do??? I have not reached out since. I’m not trying to interfere in their marriage. AITAH???