u/egrepanon

Girl I'm dating checks vast majority of my boxes and things have been going great. She sends me a TikTok and with that same link I am able to see her profile. In her profile I can see her reposts and there's a post there that says "Going from him hitting it raw to no contact is crazy".

This was reposted two months before we started seeing each other. She told me the guy she was dating casually for ~4 months was going through a hard time in his business, was not doing well financially etc. The stress of that ultimately led him to break it off with her and I guess she felt that TikTok was relevant so she reposted it?

Anyway, when I saw that, I thought it was pretty trashy. I get that everyone has a past (and that's not what I'm worried about) but there's no need to broadcast it to the world so explicitly. I don't even follow her on TikTok and I am able to see this.

I was thinking of making it official with her soon, but this is making me pause. Maybe I am overreacting, and it's just a harmless thing. In an indirect way we talked about the post, and she was just like "oh I thought it was funny, so I reposted it". I just shrugged it off and did not discuss it further, but deep down it is irking me a bit.

Should I write this off as a one-off? (As Coach always says, character is destiny, and things overall have been going great.) Or should I bring this up again? If so how?

I am a long-time student of Corey, having read the book 20+ times.

I am 26 years old and have been dating a 28-year-old woman for the past three months. Things have been going really well, and she is very into me. I currently live in New York, but there is a good chance I will move to another city in about nine months to pursue graduate school. I have already told her that this move is likely.

Although I have not said it directly, I have implied that I do not think long-distance relationships are a good fit for me because of past experiences where they did not work out.
Today, she asked me whether I would consider doing long distance if I move. I told her that it is something we would need to discuss closer to the move because I honestly do not know how I will feel at that point.

However, I think the bigger issue she is hinting at is marriage and whether this relationship has a long-term future. The truth is that I do not think I am likely to marry her. Because she is 28, I worry about wasting her time, especially if having children is an important goal for her. As things stand today, I think there is a high likelihood that I would end the relationship in the spring of 2027 when I move.

This leaves me with a difficult question. Should I tell her now that I do not currently see this relationship leading to marriage, even though it would probably cause her to end the relationship and pursue someone with more long-term potential? Or is it reasonable to continue dating, enjoy the relationship, and have that conversation closer to the time of my move in March 2027?

Title essentially explains it. I have been dating this girl pretty consistently, and I have been considering making her my girlfriend.

She has mentioned that she has had a few instances of dating app matches that did not work out, so they stayed in touch as friends. She continues to stay in touch with these guys in a friendship capacity, occasionally getting lunches with them etc. (nothing late night)

I will state for the record that nothing she has done so far makes me think she would be unfaithful. However, I will admit I am not thrilled about the fact that she is maintaining friendships with guys who obviously only connected with her (at least initially) because they were attracted to her on a dating app. So far, I have bit my tongue on this and said nothing.

Is this a red flag?

Long time reader of Corey Wayne, having read the book 20 times.

Been seeing my girl for 7 weeks, and it’s been going well. I can tell that she is falling in love with me. One night, during pillow talk, after we banged, we were talking about a bunch of sex stuff we wanted to try together, and eventually she asked me if “I would ever have a threesome”, and I said “with two girls, yeah… would you be open to that?”

She goes “no”, “I’m very straight” and “I don’t want to see another vagina.” Then she says, “but I would have one with two guys that I didn’t know, that would be fun.” I told her I would not be down for that at all and then we changed the subject.

It’s been a few days and I can’t really get this statement out of my head. She hasn’t actually done it ever, but just that fact that she was so nonchalantly down for it bothered me a bit. I’ll be completely honest.

Everything else has been going well and she’s been checking a lot of my boxes. I was seeing this as a potential relationship but the comment she made really didn’t sit well with me.

Is this a red flag? Is she for the streets? Should I just keep it casual and not give her any commitment until this dies and then date someone else? Does this disqualify her from that in your opinion? Idk how to feel about this. Maybe I’m being immature / a hypocrite and should just get over it.

Title basically explains it. I would consider myself to be a more advanced student of Corey Wayne, having read the book 20 times. I follow the principles to a T and have been able to get into multiple great relationships with beautiful women, but some of these women have told me they had "casual" relationships in the past.

Like literally they would just pull up to a dude's place, order food, and bang, and then go home (either stay the night or leave in the morning) and they would do this pretty consistently... and I am just like, how?

Following the book's principles tends to lead to the girl falling in love and asking for a relationship, and I have been able to make this a repeatable process. But is there a way to have a girl just hang out and hook up consistently without exclusivity and without taking her out on dates and instead just having her come over?

I have never experienced this and so many people around me in nyc seem to be doing it and I just don't get how it works. I'll be starting grad school part time in the near future so I won't have time for a serious relationship, and a casual relationship where we just meet each others' physical needs would be ideal.

Appreciate any insights from your experience.

Title pretty much sums it up. She texts me and asks me how my day is going etc. I typically slow walk the responses because I don't want to ignore her completely. I'll usually take 6-9 hours to respond.

In the first two weeks where I was barely texting her at all outside of setting the definite date, she mentioned that "you're not a big texter". Outside of setting the definite date, I've started texting her once per week just checking in and asking how she's doing. During one of our dates, she mentioned she was really happy about this.

We've had 5 dates so far and had sex on every date besides the first. Should I continue the mid-week reach outs even though they don't seem to align explicitly with the book? Or is this a mistake?