Dad’s wife seems like a total nut.
So I (15M), have lots of troubles with my dads wife (I don’t feel like she deserves any other label besides that) but she throws a pissy fit and spews out a ton of insane nonsense any time she’s upset about something about how she’s gonna leave my dad and then forces him into a situation where he has to choose between me or her. The most recent example of this was today. We were having a perfectly good time (which is extremely rare) and I asked my dad if he would start preparing my room so I could trial staying the night with him (I haven’t lived with him since the fourth grade and I just thought maybe if I spent more time with him other than the couple hours I spend with him on Monday’s and Tuesday’s that our relationship would improve) so after I bring that up, we arrive at the grocery store and she seems perfectly fine and we split up and my dad says we’ll meet up so then I have to use the loo and when I get out he’s telling me about how she’s saying she’s leaving him and all that because apparently he didn’t tell her anything about that (mind you this isn’t even close to being kicked into gear it was just a suggestion) so anyhow, she was super inconsistent and said multiple different things like she was gonna file a transfer request for work and somehow pay for the house or something and also she was taking all her belongings to the dump (that’s not very helpful if you ask me) and how she was walking home (this is a real big thing she does every time she throws her little temper tantrums) anyways to sum things up she just freaks out every time stuff doesn’t go her way, she dresses so inappropriately for her age (she’s like 43 and she wears unicorn shirts and rainbow Skechers) and one of the craziest things she’s ever said is when me and my dad found out she has a degree in psychology (terrible major for someone who clearly doesn’t have their life together) and she says she makes more money being the manager at dominos than she would’ve if she would’ve been a therapist. How she came to that conclusion? She applied for one job at a large clinic that’s infamous for treating staff and patients like horseshit. Anyone have an idea why she’s like this? She seems really immature and possessive to me.