u/eldorados020

I was kinda stupid and choose turtles and snail at the start and now my snail delivers mail in 25 days to UK.

How can I get more? Should I just make an army of snails?

Hello! Me and my boyfriend (newish relationship, about 6 months) can't decide where we're going to live in the future.

He's a chemist, so he likes big cities for better job opportunities, which I understand. However I'm preparing to buy a house in the small city where my parents also live. I'm going to be a teacher so for me it's better there, less competition and more chances to land a job as a teacher, however he says that if he won't find a job in the current city he'll live in, he's either going to move in to the capital or abroad, both which I don't like.

I perfectly understand him, however these are not places I would follow him and eventually I'd like if he would move in to my house, to start a family.

The job market is also very bad right now, and he can't find a job in this city, (which is also big, but I'm going to stay only one more year here before officially moving because of the house).

I don't want to break up, becaus it's such a young relationship I feel quilty thwarting both of our plans, but we can't decide in the case of a long term relationship where we'll live.

Does anyone have feedback? Or some middle ground?

In my view, if he can't land a respectable job and he works in a random store, it's not worth paying rent, especially if I'll own a house, but he doesn't want to hear been living in a small city.

As for me financially, it doesn't make sense to rent a place if I can buy a house. The current house I'm buying would have two kitchens and 4 bedrooms + 2 living rooms, a yard. For the same price in a big city at most I'll get an apartment, and I don't want to live in an apartment anymore.

Thank you all.