New to dating, how long do you give it before deciding that attraction isn’t going to happen?
(23M, ?romantic and ?sexual) Miraculously I somehow already found someone who is super into me (and keeps telling me that constantly haha)
We’ve been talking for a few weeks and gone out on a couple of dates and they are very kind, patient and affectionate. I’m feeling unsure though and like obviously the standard dating advice of looking for a “spark” is more complicated with us folks. And I feel kind of guilty about the potential for “leading someone on”.
So yeah, how long do you date someone for before the “spark” happens or deciding it isn’t going to happen? Also I know that you also have to be actively working to cultivate that spark, my understanding is to do this by sharing things about myself with them, asking questions, and doing things together which align with what we’re both interested in.