u/elmacopa

Hi! My partner(47m)and I (47f) are opening up after 29 years together. We did some light group stuff when we were first together but ended with some hurt friendships as we were young and not educated and accidentally thoughtless.

Recently we have had some experiences that have led us down a road looking for sexy community. We visited a munch and saw their dungeon. I found that was not my scene. We have explored some swinger stuff, again not quite right. We are looking for a community like the BDSM community, without the BDSM. Like couches and cuddling and light filled spaces with plants and smooches and laughing and talking about everything. Are there sexy philosopher social clubs?