I don't know if I belong here
I can't find a place on Reddit for the wives/partners of alcoholics. But I figure who best else to ask questions I can't ask my husband than other alcoholic (going through recovery or still actively drinking). My husband and I have been together since middle school. Married for almost ten years. We are 27 and 29 respectively. I just don't understand this person he's becoming, and I can't ask him ANYTHING. He gets super upset and shuts down. I don't know why he treats me like trash and pushes me away. I don't know why he's so grouchy and miserable. I have no insight. We have no alcoholism in my family but both sides of his family do. So for him this is "normal" and for me I am lost. Sorry if I am intruding into a space I don't belong... But anything helps. Thanks for reading