29F thought i’d try my luck here💀
turning 30 soon and realised i focused so much on myself that i kinda forgot to find myself a partner lmao. and the current dating scene is looking cooked. so…gg lah
about me
160cm, malay, culturally muslim. decent looking, normal to slightly curvy/chubby build, have a stable job i’m passionate about.
personality-wise, i can be chill to chaotic and unhinged depending on the person i’m with.
i like gaming, anime, music, horror, true crime, memes & philosophy.
looking for
serious relationship with marriage in mind. strictly no casual/FWBs/hookups. if you have a history of hookups, you are not for me.
ideally someone who is:
- 170cm+ (it’s just my type)
- doesn’t have to be conventionally handsome, but there has to be mutual physical attraction
- has humour, personality (no dry/nonchalant/avoidant energy pls)
- emotionally available and truly over his exes
- financially stable, responsible & has goals. i like to travel, and would want to have a place of my own someday so i’d like a partner who wants the same
- doesn’t smoke or vape
- doesn’t want kids
- preferably local bruneian and from the same cultural background
- 0 body count and waiting until marriage (dealbreaker)
- respectful. respects boundaries. isn’t primarily driven by lust. horny comments = instant block 💀
- doesn’t seek constant validation/female attention online. if your following looks like an all girls school, then hell nah 💀
i don’t think my standards are unreasonable since i hold myself to the same standards. i know this narrows the pool a lot, and that’s kinda the point.
if you think we’d hit it off, DM me :) if not, respectfully keep scrolling 🙂↕️