
Exactly what have I done wrong in this situation?
So I was trying to schedule a date on Bumble, the woman and I are discussing about where to eat. I asked her what she wants to eat and she was like she's too lazy to think of a place and so she placed the burden on me to decide. So I suggested to her a shawarma stand recommended by a food blogger since she mentioned liking Middle Eastern food. Then she tells me she finds me icky as am too "low effort" for her. What I felt bothered was that I didn't even say we must go there. I merely listed it out as a suggestion. I was fine with going elsewhere for food. Idk why it was such a big deal to her. Like what does my choice of restaurant say about my ability to be a good partner anyway? When I asked her what does high effort mean and where she would like to eat, her response was, "I am too lazy to explain and that's for you to figure out yourself." She cancelled the date and unmatched me.
Here is a snippet of the conversation.
https://imgur.com/a/rejected-because-of-restaurant-suggestion-zbOhLa8