u/erinnnn_222

For context I am a 20yo female and he is 22yo male. We have been going out for a year and have been seeing each other for roughly a year and a half. My previous boyfriend was bad for watching p£rn and watching naked girls online. My current boyfriend knew this and knew i did not like it. I am a student and we do long distance and see each other roughly every 2 weeks. Apart from when I’m home for holidays.

The other week I seen in his twitter a girls name i didn’t recognise. I was not looking in his phone, we were out drinking and he gave me his phone to search soemthing up and it happened to be on twitter and i clicked on the search bar thinking it was google when it was actually twitter and that’s when i seen it.

The next day i typed up this girl and found out she was a p£rn ⭐. I confronted him and he lied, saying he didn’t watch her. He kept lying but eventually told the truth. I was really upset. He said he didnt know why he did it, but was so sorry.

After a few days i decided to forgive him. He promised not to do it again, but how do i know that? I can’t get it out my head and don’t know if i ever can.

Can anyone who has been in similar situations give me advice ?

Hello I am a 20 year old female looking for advice. I have a ticket to go to a 4 day camping festival in 3 weeks. I don’t have travel booked yet. I don’t think I want to go, but i’m so scared of regretting not going. I do enjoy partying and drinking, however for 4 days straight sounds a bit like a nightmare. As well as this I don’t think I would enjoy camping and not having a proper bed/ place to get ready.

I am supposed to go with 4 other friends, one of which can annoy me a lot. I don’t think i want to go as it’s a lot of money once i book the travel and the drink/ food and i think i would rather use that money to go on a city break with my friends, however there is a small part of me that is terrified that i regret not going. I have 6 other friends who are not going so it’s not like i am the only one missing out.

I know it sounds dramatic but i am always so anxious about missing out on experiences and waisting my youth.

Can anyone give me advice?