u/ernst_aames

Been seeing this girl from my friendgroup for a while and I thought it was going really well. Took her out on nice dates, cooked for her, had really good time putting in the effort and building a deeper connection than we previously had and she suddenly decided she doesn't want to continue dating and won't give me more details other than dating beings anxiety inducing.

Don't know how to feel. I knew she had doubts but there were so many steps along the way where she could've expressed them a bit more coherently. My best friend feels I was too lenient to her red flags and I allowed myself to be used, I feel like I'm now in limbo because I will still have to see her during group functions.