u/esayaray

I’m having a discussion with my mother in law who spent most of her life living in the hot weather/no AC and understandably is used to showering multiple times a day. We live in a cooler climate and with AC. My husband who works a very physical job showers 2x day (before and after work). I’ve been bathing our little kids 1x day before bed. They are usually not playing in mud puddles. Again they are little and don’t smell. Is that enough or is my MIL right it should be more?

We have been through the process before moving from Florida to Hawaii so I understand the basics. This time we will be coming from Canada - is there anything else special we need to do? I did email to ask but have not gotten a response. Will the Canadian vet's Canada health certificate be accepted?

I will be relocating and will probably be trying to get a lower level job that will be less clinical, maybe more macro. Not sure yet exactly but definitely not working to the top of my license and will be taking a pay cut. Part of the reason will be to have more mental energy for my young children but I’m not sure if I should say that in an interview.

How do I word this so employers will think they’re getting a great deal and not looking at me with skepticism or thinking I won’t stay long?

What does this step mean overall? Does it mean the i130 was approved? I need some positivity because this process seems endless.