F28 | Lahore; seeking a God-fearing man
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🔅>-Marital status: Seperated (Short lived marriage) No kids.
🔅>-Age: 28 years old
🔅>-Height: 5'4
🔅>-Weight: 57 kg
🔅>-Complexion: Wheatish
🔅>-Education: Masters
🔅>-College/University: Punjab University
🔅>-Source of income: Lecturer
🔅>-Sect (Maslak) : Sunni (Deobandi)
🔅>-Cast : Arian
🔅>-Disability : None
🔅>-Personality traits: INTJ, Eldest daughter, Capricorn, Ambivert and Otrovert
🔅>-Spiritually: Practising Modest Muslim (non-hijabi/burqa; keen in Namaz,Roza,Zakat)
🔅>-Hobbies: I enjoy Walks, Researching, Reading, Series, Podcasts, Gardening, Baking, Home making, Family time etc.
*FAMILY STATUS* - Middle class self made family
🔅>-Father, Cash Manager
🔅>-Mother, Housewife
🔅>- Siblings,
1 younger brother (Working at a software company)
1 younger sister (Studying in BS)
🔅>-Residence: Own House in Lahore
🔷 *REQUIREMENT* 🔷
🔅>-Marital status: Divorced/Widowed (without kids)
🔅>-Financial Status: Stable
🔅>-Age: Compatible
🔅>-Height: Compatible
🔅>-Education : Professional Degree
🔅>-Sect : Sunni (Deobandi)
🔅>-Cast: Any (preferably Arian)
🔅>-House: Own
🔅>-City: LAHORE ONLY
🔅>-Country: Pakistan
🔅>- Family Involvement: Immediately if profile feels compatible so the process is honest and transparent without wasting each others time.
🔅>-Marriage Timeline: 6 months to a year.
🔷 More details🔷
🔅We are a small, close-knit, and very simple family and would prefer a Decent and Educated family too.
🔅No plan of reallocation or leaving Job after marraige
🔅We have help to manage with work at home and would prefer that arrangement.
🔅Family Setup: Nuclear family system. Open to live with in-laws for where the privacy, space and life is respected. Probably, a separate portion within the same house.
🔅>-Children: Yes.
🔅>-Would Prefer a Simple Nikkah.
🔅I think the foundation for a good marriage lies in friendship, respect and understanding. Hence I seek a Man of Taqwa who is Responsible and Considerate.
🔅>-I believe most issues arise due to assumptions and interferences and would like to properly discuss (values, deen, backgrounds, upbringings, habits, health, family expectations, career, finances, kids, roles, dealbreakers, attraction, future plans, boundries) with the person himself prior finalising things because in marriage nothing just flows naturally later hence better communicate respectfully and make life feel less stressful.
🔅>-Deal Breakers: Disrespect, Lack of transperancy, Irresponsible behaviour, avoidance and ego, any form of addictions, opposite gender friendships, poor hygiene, involvement in bid'ah practices, controlling behavior, lack of sincerity and lazyness towards deen, screaming and/or silent treatments, insecurity, belittle or mock others, jokes disguised as insults.
🔅>-Reason for Khula – Partner belonged to a dysfunctional family, and had Physical and Psychological issues leading to abusive behaviour (Complete arrange marriage). My Parents will discuss transparently with the family but personally I would like to keep my honour intact and wont appreciate any relevant questions.
🔷 ONLY MESSAGE WITH YOUR PROFILE, If Genuinly Serious to built a companionship.
Please ensure Clarity, it is a form of Kindness too.
(Won't consider those who wants 2nd marriage in presence of 1st wife).