u/eveon03

I (23F) and my boyfriend (26M) have only been dating for a short time- 3 months. Everything has been perfect except for one thing I can’t get over. One of his best friends, Dee (27F) might be in love with him. For context, they met online through mutual friends and have only ever interacted over discord/text/call/facetime. They “hang out” every day. The reason I think she has a crush on him is because she gets jealous when he is hanging out with me.

Examples: she and him were going to watch a hockey game at my place over discord. I was going to be there but not really watching. She got mad and refused to watch the game if he was at my house. Another time, he and her and some other online friends (who he DOES know IRL) were watching a hockey game at my house. She didn’t know he was at my place until I spoke and said hi. She didn’t speak for the rest of the game and told him later that she was super upset about it.

I brought this up to him, and asked if she might be into him. He said maybe but he didn’t want to confront that. I asked if he had ever been into her and he said no- that she wasn’t his type. Of course I trust him but they are in pretty constant contact and somewhat verbally affectionate. I wouldn’t be so worried about it, but Dee is planning two trips to meet my boyfriend. One that’s just for him and one is the wedding of the friend they met through. I don’t think I’ll be at either visit, so I’m feeling nervous. I feel nervous that she will be flirtatious/touchy/overall into him. Why would she get so upset unless she was into him? I trust my boyfriend, but I still feel anxious about the situation.

Would it be overreacting to tell him how I feel even though we haven’t been dating for super long and they’ve been friends for years? Would I have any right in asking to come meet Dee despite the fact that she probably wouldn’t like that at all?

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