u/f7go

IDK, when will you start looking like a woman?​​​​

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I didn't deserve to be shut out. Your mother and I have done nothing but love and support you since you were a child, and this is how you treat us? I know we haven't talked in over a year. I expect your self-inflicted deformity would disgust me, but disgust is no reason to abandon your family.

You used to be such a happy and intelligent child, before all of this. What happened? You're being poisoned by the media, and by the cult you've lost yourself in. It's sad to see. We also don't know how this stuff affects young brains, and you are in an important time for brain development. You are causing damage.

I support anything that makes your life brighter and happier, that makes the world a better place for the people around you and for future generations. Your identity and ideology are not that. They destroy, alienate, and will make your life harder and harder. It is unsustainable, it is life-shortening, and it is ugly.

I'm going to say what I should have said years ago. It is going to be hard to hear but I think you need and deserve the blunt truth.

Your mother and siblings accept me as I am. Your transphobia needs to stop; you are being an ass.

Hi everybody! 👋 I'm so sorry to bother you, and I know y'all are doing really important work having productive discussions about things like misandry, but I just wanted to share a different perspective that I hope can help others as much as it's helped me. 🥰

a) It helps me a ton to remember that transphobia is made-up BS with no inherent value and absolutely no merit, because literally everything about human society and culture is. Language, clothing, social hierarchy, national borders, laws, your entire government. All of it was invented and imposed on us, mostly by random white men who have been dead for a long time and had shitty beliefs even when they weren't. The universe itself couldn't care less what humans get up to or whether we suffer or thrive. There is no higher power watching over us or weighing in; we are all bastard children of the void, hurtling through the cold, meaningless, absurd expanse of space on a tiny mote of earth with absolutely no destination or purpose, circling round and round a random collection of plasma until it eventually expands and incinerates everything that remains of us.

b) Nothing about your transness or suffering is your fault, because everything we know and love is pointless, unintentional happenstance, including our very existence itself. We are all just a side effect of atoms bumping into and swirling around each other a particular way over time. True free will is a physical impossibility (you think you can control how atoms interact, or how wave functions collapse, with your MIND? ahahahaha) and nothing anyone ever does is either truly within their control or, thus, truly their fault. We are here by sheer coincidence and our lives have no inherent meaning. A hylonomus could have, like, licked a different rock or something 300 million years ago and it probably would have changed the course of history enough for humans to have never evolved in the first place. The fact that ANY of us are here is literally just a huge fucking accident.

c) Bigotry against all of us will end someday, because we are all guaranteed to die and decompose along with every one of our silly, made-up ideas. You and everyone you know--bullies, fascist leaders, abusers, friends, lovers--will soon have maggots crawling out of your rotting eye sockets as a bored groundskeeper buzzes by in a ride-on mower overhead, or be lying forgotten in a ditch as the bacteria throughout your body take you over and return you to dust, or be disintegrating in a furnace operated by some numb, overworked mortician two towns over who never knew you and doesn't care.

Never forget: your life is just as valid and meaningless as anyone else's! So keep your heads up! 😊

Hi girlies! I am living the dream and doing all the domestic labor for my fiancee, for no pay and little freedom. She made me post this for her own entertainment. I love her so much and have never been happier!

So yeah, Ask Me Anything!!!