I 40M met my perfect match 45F but she does'nt want kids and I do.
As the title says, I met Lucy (fake name) 10 years ago in college, we hung out together because we had mutual friends. I was always so attracted to her but she had a boyfriend Joe (fake name) who was part of our friend group, they both moved together out of the country. Fast forward to now she is no longer with Joe, he cheated on her and she moved back to our home town. Me and Joe had a falling out before they moved.
I recently confessed to her that Ive always had a crush on her, and she said she is open to giving me a chance. The chemistry we have is insane, she's drop dead gorgeous, funny, smart, career minded and honestly one of the kindest people I have ever met. She is pretty much my dream girl, only I always wanted to be a father and she is too old to have kids nor does she want any.
Do I sacrifice literally the most perfect woman because she cant have kids? Im so torn. Ive been single for a long time, I know how rough it is out there and I know how incredible she is, when she was with Joe she was always very loyal to him, she was affectionate and so kind. She literally feeds homeless people every Christmas she's that kind of person. I dont want to miss out on her and have regrets later, what would you do?