Moving for my husband, is it normal to be so anxious? How did you guys adjust as the ones who moved for their partner?
My husband is most likely being offered a job in Hong Kong, they’re waiting for one last reference check and will send an offer letter.
Essentially my husband will be moving towards all the excitement as he’ll have a new job, his extended family there and he speaks the language. I will be leaving my established job, friends and family. I also do not speak any Chinese.
I’ve visited HK and his family multiple times and even on our last trip I said “hmm I think I could live here” but now that it’s almost a reality I’ve shed a lot of tears, have a lot of anxiety and feel like there’s just a lot of things to think about.
Please share your experiences as a trailing partner.