Do kegals really make much of a difference?
Do kegals make any real difference for vaginal tightness?
I don't really know how to say this without feeling like a total piece of shit, but my girlfriend is a bit on the looser side. Before anyone says anything, its not deathgrip as I don't use my hand for masturbating and I've gone months without masturbating to test this theory with her. I can still orgasm with her, but I do have to put in more effort physically and mentally to bring myself to the edge compared to my prior three girlfriends. She just genuinely feels looser. Its not an attraction thing, she's stunning to me physically and we've clicked and become each others best friends. I think we have a real shot at something meaningful and long lasting so this isn't a deal breaker for me. But it would just be nice if this wasn't an issue. Would kegals make any difference for her or is it more or less it is what it is?
I have no earthly fucking idea how I could even bring this up with her without hurting her which I don't want to do. Hence part of the reason why I'm asking. I was thinking if they do actually do something, maybe just bringing it up in a way about "adding on" to our sex life, not a there's "something wrong" we need to fix kind of way and not even bringing up the topic about her being loose.