u/firenodesire

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25 [F4M] online / anywhere / georgia seeking a nerdy golden retriever bf for a long term thing

hiii

my name is kashmir. i’m 25, 5’2, from GA (EST), and open to meeting the right person anywhere.

despite being a huge homebody, i actually love traveling 😭 hoping to finally do a cruise soon and eventually visit places like japan and greece someday.

honestly i’m pretty introverted and naturally kinda “floaty.” i disappear into my hobbies/thoughts a lot and definitely need space to recharge sometimes, so my ideal relationship is very “together but separate.”

peak intimacy to me is honestly just peacefully coexisting together: discord vc while gaming, building legos beside each other, parallel play, random little moments, or just being together in real life doing our own thing. i’m definitely down to actually meet if we click.

✨ about me:

originally went to school for radiology tech before switching into cybersecurity recently (way happier now 😭)

currently obsessed with eventually learning game/app development

huge anime fan — inuyasha, bleach, saiki k, mob psycho 100, black butler, violet evergarden, dbz, naruto, ranking of kings, etc

i LOVE horror: nosferatu, terrifier, as above so below, psychological horror, creepy atmosphere stuff >>>

recently getting into comics too (started reading sandman!)

slightly obsessed with GIR from invader zim

hello kitty + strawberry shortcake own my soul

used to do tattoos!

love art, reading, food, museums, bookstores, libraries, botanical gardens, cozy nights in, and accidental 4 hour naps 😂🫠

i also genuinely love learning, so if you have hobbies/interests you’re passionate about, i’m the type to wanna experience and learn about them with you too 😭

✨ gaming:

i still play on console sometimes but i’ve mainly been on pc lately!

my rotation lately: ow2, valorant, marvel rivals, fortnite, wizard101, demons souls, plus the other 300+ games i bounce around between depending on the week 💀

✨ what i’m looking for:

i love nerdy men BAD 😭

especially sweet/gentle “golden retriever” energy. somebody emotionally intelligent, patient, funny, driven, and secure in themselves.

tech guys, creatives, gamers, gym guys, tradesmen etc are all welcome as long as you’re sweet 💘

i really value consistency, emotional openness, and people who understand that needing space isn’t rejection.

i can be a lil chaotic and bratty sometimes but i’m also very loyal/intentionally loving once i genuinely click with someone

bonus points if you can match my weird little floaty energy.

let’s swap discords if we vibe 👽🍓

“may your heart be your guiding key” 🗝️🖤

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u/firenodesire — 22 hours ago

hi there 🪞 edit : sorry im EST or east coast usa ☺️

i’m 25, 5’2, and i’m basically a mix of a girly princess and a bit of a nerd. i’m a total homebody and a "hibernating bear" i love my space, my sleep, and i move very "floaty." i do best with people who are secure and independent, because i definitely need my room to breathe and just vibe in my own world.

i’m looking for a "together but separate" dynamic. peak comfort for me is being in a voice call together while we both do our own thing

, me building legos or playing games while you do you. just enjoying the presence of someone special without the pressure to be "on" 24/7.

about my world:

the nerd side: huge nerd for anime (classics/toonami era), comics, and anything vampire related. i’m also slightly obsessed with gir from invader zim 🛸.

hobbies: i love building legos, art, reading, and horror movies (though i scare easy 😭). i’m also a huge foodie and love traveling to new places.

gaming: i’ve been a console player (ps) forever but i’m currently transitioning to pc/mnk. my rotation is ow2, val, marvel rivals, soulframe, and wizard101 (many others too). you might have to carry me a little while i get my muscle memory right 💀.

new interests: i’ve been lowkey getting back into star wars and i really want to get into hockey and baseball lately! ⚾️🏒

who i’m looking for:

i’m looking for a nerdy lover boy or someone driven and hands on (tech guys, gym rats, or tradesmen). you don’t have to be a gamer, but i love competence and people who are actually building something in their life.

i’ve been wanting to dive into lord of the rings, but i’ve been holding out because i’d rather experience it for the first time with a partner. i want someone consistent, emotionally open, and grounded.

a heads up: i can be a bit of a handful(lol very seeet and a lil chaotic) i love attention and i know what i like:3 but i’m super loyal and intentional once i click with you.

if you think you’re my type:

message me with your age, location, and what you’re currently obsessed with. tell me your favorite anime, a horror movie rec, or give me a reason to finally start LOTR! 🌚 lol im also active on discord too just ask or share ! 👽🍓🎂

[may your heart be your guiding key 🗝️🖤]

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u/firenodesire — 22 days ago

howdy doo !! i'm in college, pretty chill, and looking for a consistent duo or just NewFriendS on playstation.

i'm not into forced convos or dry energy 🤹‍♀️ (although im introverted and can be shy Imaoooo) i prefer people who are easy to talk to, a little funny/sarcastic, and can just flow. i'm pretty low maintenance and value my space, so i might disappear sometimes(i love sleeping)or not always feel like talking. i get along best with people who are secure and don't take that personally.

i mainly play unranked, but i'm open to comp if you didn't mind im boneless in the ranks.

also... i'm not terrible, but i'm not sweating 24/7 either so if you don't mind carrying a little here and there while i lock in, we'll be just fine LOL😜🥰😂

when i am on though, i'm locked in w good vibes, dark humor, + actually present.

main rotation:

rivals, ow, valorant, fortnite (festival / stw / hangout), the division 2

I LOVE HORROR (but i scare easy

outlast trials, dead island 2, resident evil (i have a few of them)

cozy / chill:

demon souls, palia, hello kitty island adventure, wizards 101, animal crossing, palworld, ffxiv

(there's more, that's just what i've been playing lately + im open minded so I'll play other stuff too!! :p)

outside of gaming, i'm into anime, comics/reading, anything vampire related, fnaf, and i love gir from invader zim👽

just looking for chill, consistent people (21+) who can hold a convo and don't need constant attention. nothing weird, just good energy

if that’s your vibe, drop your psn/discord or ask for mine :)

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u/firenodesire — 25 days ago