High pre-eclampsia risk - weighing continuing a pregnancy
Hello! Looking for info. I'm 9w3d in my first pregnancy with pre-existing Stage 1 hypertension for several years. It was normalized on olmesartan, which is not pregnancy safe. I switched to nifedipine 60mg ER and while it keeps my systolic pressure to 115-125, my diastolic before and during the first trimester has been 85-95, which is "call your doc" territory now that I’m pregnant. I did a 2nd visit to cardiology and they added labetalol 100mg 2x/day and I'm 12 days into a <2,300mg sodium diet now (from easily 5,000), which again puts my sys at 110-125 and keeps my diastolic around 85-90 - still too close.
The cardiologist put the fear of God into me - said my risk of preeclampsia is now a coin flip, "it's good I have a second embryo", prepare for a NICU baby, and I'm maxed out on the meds I can take right now. I've been hoping that the diet changes will let me get off one of these two drugs in the next 4 weeks so I have some room to grow into higher blood pressure, but I'm not sure it's going to be possible based on how it's working so far. My next cardiology follow-up is at 25 weeks, which is really long to wait.
One other thing - I'm 210lbs at 5'4, over 45, IVF, and this is a first pregnancy. Working to get to first OB appt in two weeks, and already in contact with MFM too (did a consult pre-FET).
One of my closest friends AND a cousin both had HELLP so I'm familiar with how risky this all can be.
A few questions:
- is this a reason for medical termination if I can't get this under control in the next 4-6 weeks, given all my risk factors? I'm not so willing to trade my life for a child or to be right at 90 for the next 6 months. I also have personal reasons why a very early NICU baby would be very difficult for me to manage (another family member I care for has significant challenges).
- if I do get my diastolic lower in the next couple weeks, say like to 80 generally, is the damage to the placenta etc already done so I'm still at the same risk?
- Is there a pre-eclampsia expert out there I could ask these things to? This may be my only shot, given my age.
Thanks so much for your thoughts.