u/flowercake7

My STBXH wants to get divorce and he is already looking for houses and created an excel with finances who gets what. He scheduled for a mediation and I am still in denial, trying to process, should I continue with mediation or get a lawyer. We have 2 boys 11 and 7 year old. He said if I get a lawyer that means it is going to contentious. I do not have any family and friends to discuss it.