u/fqowndbm

i’m 16 and i’ve been dealing with this insecurity since i was 13-14.

I have a big mons pubis, and whenever i wear any pants, it could be leggings, sweatpants that aren’t too baggy but not too tight, shorts, it just sticks out, it looks like i stuffed something in there.

i used to be 110kg and now i weight 88-89kg and i’m 172cm, i’m not sure if it will go down in size if i continue loosing weight, but i’m just so insecure about it. I want to wear short tops and cute clothing that doesn’t require me covering the area.

The most thing that bothers me is if i ever get in a relationship and he will be disgusted in what he sees down there. Please if anyone who has had this problem, did it go down in size once you lost a significant amount of weight?

I’m 16 years old and I don't know how to do basic maths. When I was 12, I started year 7, but I stopped going soon after due to really bad anxiety and depression. I missed out on a lot of school years as I thought none of this would be worth it. I thought I wouldn’t make it past 13. All of those years, I didn’t receive any education until last year. I’m now starting college tomorrow and I feel really embarrassed & ashamed to be doing functional skills maths. Other kids my age know how to do gsce maths, while i’m here doing year 3-4 maths. I know it’s my fault for this being but i’m honestly filled with deep regret of not finishing secondary school. I know i’ll learn more in college but something about not knowing basic knowledge maths makes me cry nearly everyday. I try to study maths at home, but it can be so discouraging knowing this is what you’re doing at 16. I have no clue why i feel like this because I know I will get better at maths when I start going to college, but just thinking about it makes me feel terrible. All I can think about is how ashamed I feel about everything.