is college/uni really better than secondary?

idk i come from a very small town where you literally can’t be yourself without getting judged so hard. i’m just so sick of it and im scared uni won’t be better than secondary rn because it’s literally all ive been telling myself since half way thru first year🥲

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u/francisca-stm — 8 hours ago
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How to find another job quickly

i currently work in a chinese take away, which i hate. it’s like a love hate relationship one day i love it and the other day im coming home crying (one of those days today🥲). i’m still a student (17) i don’t own a car and i can’t drive so my parents drive me when their not working which is okay for them because it’s only 10 minutes away, it’s not a big town, it’s very small.

in the takeaway we do deliveries and i have the till right 100% of the time unless a certain delivery driver is working. i’ll call him max. max is well known for not being a good person, he has been arrested for stealing and assault. my boss has seen him steal twice on the cctv cameras but she still refuses to fire him. he is literally a master manipulator and has confused every single one of the staff into thinking that we have given him the wrong money so he ends up getting more. this is my 3rd time with the till being short with him. but my boss refuses to fire him and it’s my fault when the till is wrong ( which it is and i am not going to deny it. if he is able to take advantage of me like that i’m not going to not take the blame and say the till is short not because of me, it’s partially both of us.) my boss refuses to fire him. my co-workers an i have begged her to because we all get into trouble because of him. (they have no relations at all so there is no reason why she can’t fire him)

so obviously i’m sick of working here because of that. i need to save up money for a car and college, my parents aren’t well enough off to pay for college, accommodation and a car, so im taking it into my own hands to pay for college and a car i can drive up and down to college in everyday. i literally cannot find a job that is close enough for me to work at, i struggled for a year to even find this job. how can i find another job quickly? i’m not picky at all with where i work but i would prefer to not deal with cash again because im just scared, nobody wants to hire students anymore. please give me some advice on how to find a new job or if i should just stay at the one i have!!

(sorry if this is wrote badly, im dyslexic.)

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u/francisca-stm — 2 months ago

haul!!

so excited to try the mist!! let me know your thoughts on the mist and how you use it🫶🏻

u/francisca-stm — 3 months ago

am i crazy?😭 maybe new mv

tate posted a video of it raining on her story and it looks like she’s in a trailer, maybe she’s coming out with a new music video/single?? i could be wrong, she could be doing anything in a trailer but i’m praying it’s a mv, what do you guys think? (new pics from her story)

u/francisca-stm — 3 months ago

Am i going to regret dropping a subject?

i have struggled with construction alll year and it’s gotten to the point i’m having panic attacks every day before school going into that class, if i drop ill have 6 subjects and my lcvp but im scared its not gonna be enough

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u/francisca-stm — 3 months ago

DARE/HEAR scheme

hi everyone! i’m doing my lc next year and i have a chronic illness which effects my day to day life and im going to apply for dare, everyone says it’s a lottery if you get it or not, in ty i missed 100+ days and ive missed around 50 this year. im really scared i wont get it next year because i do need the extra help not just for the points but it gives you extra help in college and uni. how likely is it that i will get dare? i know some people apply for dare who don’t need the extra help which effects the people who actually need it

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u/francisca-stm — 3 months ago

feminine hygiene

(idk if this is nsfw lol)

i feel soo silly for asking this but i still smell down there😪 i use a wash cloth and unscented soap, and i don’t wear panties to bed like everyone says to do but i still smell? i’ve started trying to use witch hazel around the area too but i can still smell. i don’t know if this is relevant but ill say it anyway, i have an outie which idk if it makes a difference to clean or not and my vagina is naturally quite wet? i think that is kinda unusual since i don’t have a very high sex drive or anything but it always makes my panties damp too, i have to change them 2 times a day and if anyone has any tips on how to stop that too pls lmk!!

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u/francisca-stm — 3 months ago