i know this sounds too good to be true but i legit can’t find anything about this company on reddit or anywhere except their website and linkedin. it’s the company Charter Schools USA, i found the job listing on linkedin but this just sounds fishy to me. i feel like this should be obvious but it’s the first one of these emails that’s actually came from a legit email address and that i actually applied to
has anyone told their husband they want to work things out just to keep the peace until they can make all the moves financially to get out? a couple weeks ago things finally came to a head between us when i finally told him that what he does is financial abuse because i have no access to any money unless my mom or dad give me some randomly or i sell something of mine, i can’t buy myself my own basic necessities or even put my gas in my car without him, he purchases all groceries through his account and picks them up and decides all the dinner ideas. yes i know this is ridiculous but things haven’t always been this way and it’s easy to have an opinion when you’re not in this situation. i enrolled back into college in january and he was totally on board because the idea is to be able to get a job once our kids are in school and be better set up with having my degree to back me. thankfully i get a refund from school and yes i did take out more loans than i needed so i had money to get my kids some things they needed (he has no access to that bank account and quite frankly never knows how much is in it or who it’s even though). i tried to suggest we just hold off on the divorce process until we both financially are in better spots and he said no, it’s either we work on things (he says we should just pretend like everything’s good and eventually it will be again) or we divorce (he knows i am financially not in a spot to do that and would use it against me) so now im slowly mapping out what all i need to get out of his grasp but part of me still feels guilty. if you’ve read this then thank you for listening to me vent