u/fruitoftheloom2020

I grew up in the LDS community, where I was very sheltered when it came to anything sexual. I wasn’t exposed to sexual content, conversations, or really given much space to explore that part of myself. I married my husband young, and now he sometimes brings up fantasies or things he wants to try that feel completely foreign to me.

I love him and want us to have a healthy, fulfilling marriage, but sometimes I feel guilty or inadequate because I don’t have the same experience or comfort level. I’m realizing that being sheltered for so long shaped me more than I understood, and now I’m trying to figure out what I actually like and feel comfortable with without feeling ashamed for being inexperienced.