u/ftisthrowaway

As a first gen college student and south asian trans guy who barely graduated undergrad (nearly dismissed from how many classes i failed), receiving my master’s acceptance email was SO relieving. My longterm goal is medical school & this program is tailored for pre-health students who need the academic boost, so it’ll be intense but worth it as a stepping stone to my final destination. I’m excited to get a second chance at school & prove to myself that I’m capable of success. I’m trying to get better at celebrating my accomplishments, hence this post, but also wanted to share bc I’m sure some of y’all have similar experiences & can understand where I’m coming from. This was also the only program I applied to, so I really lucked out

Disclaimer that what works for me might not work for everyone BUT I hope this can at least guide people in the right direction.

My girth is about 6" at the widest part of my glans, 5.5"-ish mid-shaft, and a little over 6" at the base. A wide girth + being flaccid makes it impossible to penetrate most toys, as you could imagine. After a ton of research, I got myself a Tenga Drape stroker from their Arte series & it actually worked! The material is really stretchy, to the point where they have you turn it inside out when cleaning, so I used it to my advantage. After putting lube inside of it (it's closed-ended so nothing will leak out/make a mess), I turned it partially inside out kinda like a sock, slightly stretched the sides I was holding so I could comfortably insert myself, then rolled it over the rest of my shaft. My sensation is still developing, but can confirm I really liked whatever I could feel. Overall my brain enjoyed the visual despite the patchy sensation, which I'm sure helped connect some dots for sensation mapping too.

I can honestly see this working for girths over 6" as well, just remember to use a good amount of lube and pay attention to what you feel. I tried not to be explicit for the sake of sub rules, but feel free to ask any questions here or via DM and I'll do my best to answer!

Last note: I have 0 affiliation with HappyBed (the shop I linked), they're just really cool. They have free discrete shipping (currently only within the US & case-by-case to Canada) + options to make it extra discrete, super reasonable pricing compared to most other websites, & a reusable 20% off code to make it cheaper. I emailed them bc I had product questions and honestly thought there was a catch with their prices, but they are legit! They answered all my questions in detail and even explained their business model. I know I sound like an ambassador, but I swear I just love a good non-predatory company (considering the current state of the economy/country)

TLDR: If you're looking for a stroker that fits a large girth (especially if you don't have an ED device), look into the Tenga Drape or Weave

Accepted into my #1 master’s program

Found a toy for pre-ED ALT/girthy folks!