Hi! I may be moving into a 288 sq ft studio soon and was wanting to put a full size daybed in this lil nook in the bottom left. I can't measure it right now, could someone guesstimate if this would fit length wise? (idc about it sticking out of the corner. just want the headboard to fit in the wall if that makes sense, like the drawer area sticking out is fine.) Thanks!
Hi, wanted to get some perspective
I work on a psychiatric unit and recently got hit in the head during an escalation. This resulted in me trying to "tough it out" for an hour then ultimately feeling nauseous and opting to visit my work's emergency room.
I was diagnosed with a concussion and initially given 5 days out, but at five days I was still having pretty significant symptoms (light sensitivity, nausea, headache, ROM in neck stuff) so I opted to be seen today.
While I'm waiting at occupational urgent care (for hours btw) I get a call from my workers comp person where she basically asks me what happens, I tell her and I tell her what symptoms I'm having.
She decides to order an IME and literally states that on footage she "saw me get hit but is not sure there was enough force in the hit to do damage". She's also... not a doctor?
I'm feeling really frustrated because I'm literally miserable. My doctor at urgent care wanted to refer me to getting PT to try and ease some symptoms, but now doesn't feel like she can since they're calling for an IME (weeks from now btw, so I'll probably be better anyways). On top of that, what if my claim is denied because the IME doctor that is definitely not unbiased says I wasn't hit hard enough and I have to pay back time loss? Feeling stuck because I literally physically cannot do my job as a psych tech right now (restraints, thinking quickly, standing on feet for 12 hours at a time).
Guess I was just kinda venting. Thanks for reading.
Hi, going to be kinda a long post/a lot to explain. I started dating my partner when we were both 19. It was a really messy situation, we were both very emotionally immature and the relationship started with a lot of cheating from him and lying. Not only did he cheat multiple times, but he also gaslit me for a year when the girl told me. Long story short, he continued cheating after he said he would stop and there were multiple other times. That being said, the last time was about age 20 and we are 25-26. So time has passed.
He has been physically and emotionally abusive. Pretty heavily. Including times where he shoved me when I was pregnant (we do not have a kid -- i miscarried) and insulting me. a lot. As of late, that has just begun translating to emotional neglect. He spends essentially all of his free time playing games and is hyperfixated on it HARD.
I recently got a concussion at work (psych unit) and I still have had to take care of all the responsibilities around the house because he doesn't drive. The first ever argument we had about him having no ambition and not advancing through life was about 3 years ago. Nothing has changed, and when enough time passes that I get upset about it and bring it up again it becomes a big argument. He doesn't drive, so I do all tasks. He doesn't have a bank acc, so I'm in charge of the bills (he will give me cash for it ofc), I remind him of everything. I never get that back.
As of late, he has completely emotionally regressed. He is absolutely horrible to talk to about feelings or anything of the sort. No matter what I do, he accuses me of trying to argue with him. I just don't know what to do because when i'm not upset about anything, he is kind to me and gives me a lot of verbal affection. It kinda just does nothing for me anymore, his actions contradict everything.
During the span of the relationship, i've advanced my career and gotten my degree and am only finding relief from the dread of my living situation by imagining getting a studio and going back for my masters. This is a hard task because of money, but I'm trying to work towards it ASAP.
I will likely delete this later, but I just want to vent and reassure myself that making a plan to safely leave and restart my life isn't a mistake. Selfishly, I hope me leaving will be a wake up call and he will notice everything I did. Any life advice would be good. I moved states to live near his family with him so I have no support system near me. Currently trying to sell items to save money for a deposit on an apartment to escape this.