Tea ceremony when majority of attendees will be white...
This is more of a question towards all that have this tradition, but i really want to have a traditional chinese tea ceremony at my wedding.
However because of where I live and who I am marrying (in addition to most of my chinese family having now died), the majority of wedding guests & ceremony attendees will be white. The only actual chinese people would be my mother, my sister and I.
You could obviously argue that I can do whatever I want and it's my wedding, but I am more worried about:
how awkward it will be for his parents and grandparents, who basically don't know anything about the culture and tradition
how much of an "exotic spectacle" and "interesting and unique cultural experience" it will be to the people involved, rather than being seen as a genuine tradition (you get exactly what i mean).
Is it too awkward if there's no more chinese people? I would be completely fine with the europeans gawking if at least 20% of the wedding attendees were chinese, but because it'll just be us three, I'm worried what it'll be turned into.