u/goddessofhedonism

Been seeing my provider for two months. He has been great so far. His card is on my apple wallet. He is paying off my debt. In his early 30s, 6’3 lol.
He is talking about going on our first vacation soon… I would like to be intimate with him in the next few months. But only when I am ready. The conversation has come up twice.

Where are some fun ideas for where we can go. I want to flirt with him, go shopping, maybe the spa and get lost in museums.
Paris is tooo hot in the summer. I thought about Edinburgh but I feel like our first trip should be Domestic.

I am 32, 5’7, curvy/hourglass, feminine, affectionate, and intentional about who I connect with. I love lifting, Pilates, skincare, spa days, and feeling strong while still soft. Educated in finance and software development, I recently started my own business in November.

I’m well-traveled, cultured, a little free-spirited, and naturally drawn to elegance, luxury, passion, and long-term love. I value loyalty, family, emotional depth, and building something meaningful that lasts.

I’m naturally nurturing, supportive, playful, and deeply loyal with the right person. I am also naturally submissive with the right man and thrive most in a relationship where I feel protected, cherished, and deeply taken care of.

I am very attracted to masculine men with protective, athletic energy. Strong, disciplined, emotionally grounded, capable… but soft with me. I tend to be most drawn to founders, entrepreneurs, and ambitious professionals. Bonus points if you look good in a suit ;)

Please know how to properly court a woman. Effort, consistency, generosity, intentionality, and emotional intelligence matter to me.

My type
tall
attractive
fit
educated
emotionally stable
no kids
ambitious and financially driven
family-oriented

I want marriage, children, passion, loyalty, and a beautiful life together. I love the idea of building generational wealth, traveling, and creating a warm, elevated family life.

I value a soft, well-supported lifestyle and I’m very honest about that. I’m not interested in trying to do everything alone or playing exhausted superwoman.

I would much rather focus my energy on my husband, my children, my well-being, my hobbies, and creating a warm, beautiful home environment. I love the idea of managing and curating a home rather than handling every domestic task myself.

Long term, I would absolutely want support in place like household staff, a chef, cleaning help, and eventually a night nurse when children are involved.

I want a life that feels soft, relaxed, abundant, romantic, and deeply loving, where both partners are able to operate at their highest level.

If this resonates, send something thoughtful. Open to meeting in real life if there’s genuine alignment.

Send me a thoughtful DM, and kindly be able to verify soon. Can’t wait to meet you ♥️

Edit:
I want to add.

I am drawn to healthy masculine energy, protective, emotionally grounded, generous, disciplined, intelligent, and capable of leading without needing control games or constant power tests.

I am naturally soft and feminine with the right man, but I value emotional maturity, patience, and steadiness over performative “alpha” behavior. Confidence is attractive. Emotional reactivity and dominance theater are not.

I am not looking for someone obsessed with control dynamics or “testing” femininity. The strongest men I have met never needed to force their masculinity to be felt.

I briefly was on dating apps, I am more traditional and figured I would give this subreddit a shot.

I am hourglass, and I take care of myself. I love lifting, the gym, and Pilates, and I enjoy feeling strong and put together. I love the spa, my skincare routine, and dressing up. I am educated from a highly regarded university, and I recently started my own business in November.

I am well-traveled, cultured, and naturally drawn to a lifestyle that feels elevated, intentional, and a bit luxurious.

I am drawn to a specific dynamic: real attraction, commitment, and building a life together that leads to marriage, kids, and long-term stability.

I do not want an average life. I am always working on myself and I am looking for a man who is doing the same. Driven, disciplined, emotionally grounded, and moving with real direction. I want to build generational wealth and create a legacy.

I am naturally feminine, supportive, and nurturing. I have a calm, grounded presence but I am also a bit free-spirited, playful, and enjoy life. I do best with a man who enjoys leading and taking care of his partner. That dynamic brings out my softer side.

I am especially attracted to founders, entrepreneurs, and professional men with vision and ambition… and I do have a soft spot for a man in a suit ;)

I appreciate a man who knows how to properly court a woman and expresses care through generosity, effort, and consistency.

**My type**
6’0+
educated and intelligent
in shape, well-groomed
no kids
on a strong financial path

I value a lifestyle where things are well-supported. I prefer to manage and oversee rather than handle day-to-day domestic tasks, so I can focus on my well-being, my family, and creating a beautiful, peaceful environment.

I am dating with intention and open to something progressing naturally if there is alignment. Ideally looking toward engagement within a couple of years with the right person.

If this resonates, send something thoughtful. I am open to meeting in real life if there is a genuine connection. I am open to moving. I split time between Michigan and Chicago.

I briefly was on dating apps, I am more traditional and figured I would give this subreddit a shot.

I am hourglass, and I take care of myself. I love lifting, the gym, and Pilates, and I enjoy feeling strong and put together. I love the spa, my skincare routine, and dressing up. I am educated from a highly regarded university, and I recently started my own business in November.

I am well-traveled, cultured, and naturally drawn to a lifestyle that feels elevated, intentional, and a bit luxurious.

I am drawn to a specific dynamic: real attraction, commitment, and building a life together that leads to marriage, kids, and long-term stability.

I do not want an average life. I am always working on myself and I am looking for a man who is doing the same. Driven, disciplined, emotionally grounded, and moving with real direction. I want to build generational wealth and create a legacy.

I am naturally feminine, supportive, and nurturing. I have a calm, grounded presence but I am also a bit free-spirited, playful, and enjoy life. I do best with a man who enjoys leading and taking care of his partner. That dynamic brings out my softer side.

I am especially attracted to founders, entrepreneurs, and professional men with vision and ambition… and I do have a soft spot for a man in a suit ;)

I appreciate a man who knows how to properly court a woman and expresses care through generosity, effort, and consistency.

My type
6’0+
educated and intelligent
in shape, well-groomed
no kids
on a strong financial path

I value a lifestyle where things are well-supported. I prefer to manage and oversee rather than handle day-to-day domestic tasks, so I can focus on my well-being, my family, and creating a beautiful, peaceful environment.

I am dating with intention and open to something progressing naturally if there is alignment. Ideally looking toward engagement within a couple of years with the right person.

If this resonates, send something thoughtful. I am open to meeting in real life if there is a genuine connection.