Aitk for wanting to understand the reason behind her reaction?
My girlfriend who is hyper independent and rebellious was on a scooty wearing a crop top and jeans today. As with crop tops a part of her back was visible which she knows and is okay with.
A guy in his late twenties informed her in a not cat calling but rather a calm tone of the same to which she responded rudely and the guy was stunned.
When she told this to me in the evening. I asked her about the tone to which she replied the above. This prompted me to ask her what if the guy just wanted to be a gentleman and added that you were a little mean. Her response was along the lines of men shouldn't look and that a woman obviously knows what's revealing and what's not and was pissed at the fact that I asked this. So people of reddit. Guide me. If aitk please be blunt because I want to be objectively socially moral and correct
Update: Appreciate the comments and to all of you , my apologies. Will definitely keep in mind and be better.