Today was the day!
I (27,f)have officially gone no contact with my (53,m)father. I have dealt with emotional abuse for years. I’m getting married soon, and he recently just got his 29 year old wife (who he met while she was young at his business he owned) pregnant. I have been an only child my whole life up until now. He hates me and my mother but will not stop asking about her. He also just recently screamed at my aunt in front of his grieving mother calling the women in our family bitches (this was after his father died, my grandpa). At my grandfathers funeral he ignored me the whole time, which was super hard for me.
My first memory of him is throwing my mother into a closet while I was in the bathtub (she was 19 and he was 28 when she got pregnant with me).
And my last memory will be him throwing a hissy fit over text and telling me to “get over” the hurt he’s caused.
I feel a weight has been lifted off my shoulders finally. Nothing I ever did could be right for him so, now I will do nothing! Woo hoo