u/gumunderurdesk

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I might be pregnant and have absolutely no idea what to do

I’m 18 and had sex with my boyfriend (19) earlier today. We used protection (I’m in my violation phase but it says my prediction date for ovulation is Saturday). After we had sex, I found out he initially put the condom on inside out so he took it off and flipped it the right way and we had sex. There will have been precum on the outside of it (this went inside of me) and I’m terrified of getting pregnant. I will be taking the morning after pill tomorrow but don’t know how effective it will be given that I’m in my ovulation phase. Do I just take it and wait for my period (due on the 30th)??? Very scared rn and need answers

EDIT: I cannot tell my parents, they’d be so disappointed in me

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u/gumunderurdesk — 1 day ago

Gave a guy a handjob and he went soft in my hand, is it my fault?

So I (18f) matched with this guy (19m) on hinge like a month or so ago and we’ve really hit it off. A few days ago we went on a date day, think cinema, a meal etc and then went back to his place to spend the night. Eventually we started like making out and stuff and I was on top and could feel he was pretty hard. I asked him if he wanted me to give him head and he said yes but he’d like to shower first. He went and showered and then came back and we started with a handjob. He looked and sounded like he was rlly enjoying it but after a minute or so, he went soft. He was embarrassed and we hugged it out and then eventually ended up falling asleep. Did I do something wrong or like is it him? He’s never had a handjob or head or anything like that before so idk if that’s relevant

EDIT: feel as though I should clarify- this was not my first time giving a handjob and he had instructed me on what to do in order to make him feel good. He was moaning right up until I stopped cause he’d gone fully soft. I’ve asked him if it was my fault and he said no, shall update when he expands. Thank you all for the reassurance <3

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u/gumunderurdesk — 24 days ago