Looking for Something Genuine, Serious, and Respectful (english)
Assalamu Alaikum, I hope everyone’s doing well, inshaAllah
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I’ll be 21 in November, and I’m 178 cm tall. I’m Omani from my dad’s side and Kuwaiti from my mom’s side. I’m Sunni, but I don’t mind Shia, I don’t really care about that. I was born and raised in Kuwait, and my family has been living here for a very long time
I have one year left until I graduate with a degree in Computer Engineering, inshaAllah, and I’m planning to continue with my Master’s afterward, inshaAllah
I’m a very chill person, and I value honesty, clear communication, respect, and peace. I put God before anything else. To me, a successful relationship is built on communication, understanding, trust, and feeling comfortable with each other. I don’t believe in cheating, emotional games, or lying for no reason. I want both people to feel comfortable being themselves and to be able to talk about things openly and respectfully
I love romance vibes and the little sweet moments between two people. I want to understand my partner, and I want her to understand me. I want the relationship to be built on love, mercy, respect, and peace
I’m into gaming, anime, movies, volleyball, jazz, fishing, and deep conversations. I also love trying new things, especially with the right person. I’m a bit of a homebody, so I’m perfectly happy staying home and enjoying our time together, but I also like going out and experiencing new things with someone I’m comfortable with
Right now, I’m focused on my studies and my future, but if I meet the right woman, I’ll definitely make time for her and give the relationship the attention it deserves
My goal is pretty simple. I’m looking for a serious and respectful relationship that leads to marriage within a relatively short period, depending on what works for both of us. I want a peaceful home where we can build our future together and be there for each other through both the good and bad days
As for the person I’m looking for, I want a woman who fears God above everything and is kind, understanding, respectful, and straightforward. I like someone with a strong personality in the right way, someone who has her own values and principles, knows right from wrong, and doesn’t just follow people without thinking for herself
I prefer someone between 18–23, and hijabi is better. I’d also prefer someone who’s Kuwaiti
I don’t expect someone to be perfect, and I’m not perfect either. What matters to me is how we treat each other and how we deal with problems. I don’t like lying, emotional games, or overreacting to everything. I believe problems should be talked through calmly and respectfully. I’ll respect her boundaries and dignity, and I expect the same in return
Looks aren’t a huge deal to me. I care more about someone being natural, taking care of herself, and having a good personality. It’s good if she doesn’t wear makeup, but I don’t mind a bit of it either. I’m more interested in who someone is as a person than trying to find someone who fits a certain appearance
At the same time, I know what kind of relationship I don’t want. If you’re very materialistic, never satisfied, or care more about what people think than about your own life and peace of mind, please don’t waste your time with me
I want someone who appreciates what she has and doesn’t constantly compare our life to other people’s lives. I believe marriage is a partnership built on love and companionship, not competition, status, or appearances
I want us to work toward a better life together while still being grateful for what we have. I won’t make your life harder, and I don’t want you making mine harder either, inshaAllah. I want us to support each other, grow together, and make life easier for one another
There’s also one important thing I want to be clear about from the beginning. My mom comes with the package. She’s always been there for me, and all my siblings are married. There’s no way I’m leaving her behind. I’m not saying she would interfere in our marriage or that there wouldn’t be boundaries, but she is an important part of my life and that isn’t something I’m willing to change, but ofc she won't intefear with our problems or life it's our life
So if you’re not okay with that, we probably won’t be a good match
That’s pretty much it. I’m not looking for something temporary or just to pass the time. I’m looking for something genuine, serious, and respectful, with marriage being the end goal if Allah writes it for us
Thank you for taking the time to read this, and may Allah bless everyone with the right person