Age : 30
Nationality:stateless
Profession: electrical engineer private sector
Hobbies: Gaming, Movies and gym.
Height: 169 cm
Weight: 73kg
Religion: Muslim (Sunni)
Father stateless shia, mother kuwaiti sunni.
Scale of how religious I’m: (7/10)
What I’m looking for : a female, preferred bachlor degree. I don’t mind her to be taller then me, but I prefer she enjoy or open to these (gaming / anime / gym), she should have value for communication, kindness and respect.

وش يكون رد فعلك ك راجل إذا بنت محترمه قالتلك ان تبي تتعرف عليك للزواج و انت ما تدري عنها كثير ؟ لو قالتلك لان أهدافكم و مستواى دينكم مشتركه و تشوفك واحد محترم ب شخصيه حلوه؟ وش كان رد فعلك؟ هل حصل لك؟ للبنات، سويتوا هل شيء ؟ و إذا سويتي وش صار؟

جوب

عندي سؤال ودي اسمع قصص صارت لكم او احد تعرفونه.
في مره تمنيتو شي من بعيد لي بعيد و دعيتو الله وايد يرزقكم ياه و رزقكم؟ سواء شخص بعيد من ظرف واحد/ زوج/ شي ثمين / مبلغ / شي ملموس او لا.
شي من كل قلبكم تتمنونه و تحسونه مستحيل بس كملتو و ايقنتو ان ماعلى الله شي مستحيل و دعيتو وايد و تحقق؟

سولفو لنا لعل تعطون امل حقي و حق غيري

I’ve seen some stories about expats marrying Kuwaiti women. How does this work legally and culturally? What are the requirements, and what challenges do couples usually face? I’m curious about the process and how common it is.

Salam 🥰 this is my last free summer before I either get married or have to start working in my professional field. So I want to make the best of these holidays inshaa Allah.

I think practising cooking certain dishes is always a good idea, but also going more often to the gym and spending time with family.

So I was wondering what our brothers here wish for their destined spouse to learn and practise before getting married.

I’m curious to hear people’s thoughts on this.

I’ve often heard that many Kuwaiti women are reluctant to marry a foreign man (even if they’re in love) because marrying a Kuwaiti offers greater security and stability, particularly regarding citizenship and other benefits.

With the recent changes and some people losing their citizenship, do you think this perspective is changing? Would marrying someone from abroad, such as a British national, be viewed differently today, or do the same considerations still outweigh everything else?

I’d be interested to hear different viewpoints and experiences.

I am a 27 year old Emirati female looking for a 🪻marriage arrangement with a Kuwaiti man.

I am 167 cm, fem, 59kgs, light olive skin and attractive (I say this with uttermost humbleness).

I can share more details about myself and the preferred arrangement in the dms.

Please share this with anyone you know would be interested.

Hi
My Arabic is a lil rusty so I decided to write in English. I’m a Kuwaiti women and I spent half of my life abroad so I’d like to hear people’s perspectives who have lived here and are Sunni and are more insightful.
I have heart condition and I’m stable Hamdullah. I have a job, drive myself to work so I live my life normal. Since being back in Kuwait, for a year now, I see relatives get married and I’m happy for them. It just stings a little to hear about how someone went to propose or someone got asked for their hand in marriage and it’s like I feel like I’m missing a step in life that people have passed. I’m 26 and it’s probably largely based on my health conditions or how I look.
It does hit my self esteem sometimes because I have two degrees , was raised by amazing parents and u feel like ur not enough still. Marriage isn’t an accomplishment but it feels like it here and I’m navigating that I might not ever get married, and I don’t want to feel bad about myself because of it.
How do you navigate it?

I’m a 25-year-old Indian Muslim man currently working in Kuwait, and I’m in a serious relationship with an Egyptian Muslim woman who i met online. We both love each other deeply, and our intention is marriage—not just a relationship.
At the moment, I’m at the very beginning of this journey. Her family doesn’t know about me yet, but my plan is to travel to Egypt, meet her family respectfully, and ask for her hand in marriage. I believe they will approve Inshallah If everything goes well, we’d like to get engaged first. After that, I hope both our families can meet during an Umrah trip together, and then we can decide on a wedding date.
The biggest challenge is that, with my current situation in Kuwait, I’m not yet eligible to bring my future wife to live with me because of the local sponsorship and visa requirements. So even if we get married, I’m unsure how to handle the period afterward.
I’m trying to think several steps ahead instead of acting on emotion alone. I don’t want to make promises that I can’t keep. I want to have a realistic, responsible plan that respects both families and gives us the best chance of building a stable life together.
For those who have gone through something similar—especially international marriages involving the Gulf countries—how would you approach this? Would you wait longer before marriage, get married and manage a temporary long-distance arrangement, or consider another path?
I’m looking for practical advice from people with real-life experience. Thank you in advance

Hello,

I’m a woman in my 20s, I’ve been ready to get married for 6 years now but nothing has changed. I wanted it to be halal more than anything but maybe that’s not meant for me. YES I have spoken to everyone I could think of in my circle but now I’m open to getting to know people in other ways. I don’t want just anyone though, it needs to be someone kuwaiti who is compatible with me in terms of background, religion, and education.

I’m already being seen at work and I’m exposed to men and women of all ages (elderly to children) but that hasn’t proved fruitful. I refuse to go to weddings for the sole purpose of getting married but I do plan on being more active in the community in other ways.

I just don’t know where to start. If you are a married person or you know someone who is happily married in a non-traditional way kindly let me know what I need to do/where I need to show up.

Canadian latina revert to islam Muslim since 2010, at 20 years old Now i am 36 Divorced no kids Sunni 173cm Moving to kwt in august in sha Allah

LOOKING FOR: Arab with citizenship from the Gulf or the West (Europe, USA etc) OR convert to islam. 30-45 years old. Not married. 180cm or more. University educated. Well travelled.

24 F, Chechen, living in the UAE for the past 7 years. I am Sunni. I am working as a software engineer. Looking for a Sunni man between ages 24-28. Preferably tall and into fitness and health as I am. I would prefer to stay in the uae

Edit - I’m not only looking for Kuwaitis. Open to anyone Muslim

ابي جوبكم.

Hello.

This sub randomly came up on my feed and been watching it as it has been very interesting.

From what I have seen so far, some of you are absolutely not ready to be married or don't know what should be important information you should be conveying.

Those who seem a bit desperate, it is understandable, but ultimately getting married would make it a worse situation for you as you need to reach emotional maturity to be married.

Those who don't know or putting down irrelevant information, you are the reason I am making this post, this is what I recommend you should be putting down as well:

Other than the usual age job etc, you have to describe your actual personality, not your interests only. Speak as to what makes you happy, what you do that makes you enjoy life, how having a partner would change that, what your aims and ambitions in life how you plan to achieve those, what you imagine your day to day life with your partner would be, how financial (in private ofcourse) would be managed, what you want in a partner, how you hope to connect with the partner and your goals together as a couple, how you would act together if you got in an argument (are you the type of person that needs to cool off or talk things right away etc).

I have been married for 10+ years, ofcourse with ups and downs, I just remembered when I went in the whole advice of اسأل الي تبي which in my eyes was stupid and thought this sub based on what I saw could use this advice.

Has anyone else found it difficult to find people who are genuinely serious?
Since making my post, I’ve had some really nice conversations, and I’m grateful for that.
One thing I’ve noticed, though, is that finding someone who’s genuinely willing to move things forward off Reddit and work toward getting to know each other for a serious relationship that leads to marriage seems harder than I expected.
I’m not looking for perfection, I know none of us are perfect. I’m just hoping to find someone who’s willing to put in effort, communicate honestly, and see where things go if we click.
I’m curious if others have had a similar experience?

Are people just looking for perfection at this point?

Tell me your answers

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

اتمنى الكل بخير 🤍

ناوي أتزوج بالحلال بإذن الله

والي يفضل الإنجليزي بيحصل البوست بالأكاونت، بس نزلته بالعربي لأن في ناس تفضل العربي ولكن تقريبا نفس الكلام فقط للي يفضل العربي

عنّي:

الجنسية: عماني من أم كويتية، مواليد الكويت وعايش فيها وادرس فيها

المذهب: سني

الطول: 178 سم

الدراسة:

باقيلي سنة وأتخرج هندسة كمبيوتر بإذن الله، وعندي نية أكمل لين دكتوراه إذا الشي هذا كان مناسب لنا بالمستقبل ويتم التفاهم عليه بينا

هواياتي:

ألعاب، أنمي، كرة طائرة، جاز، سوالف عميقة، أفلام، جمعة الأهل، الوناسة، الحداق، وأي شي فيه حماس أو هدوء

العمـر:

بدخل 21 إن شاء الله بشهر 11

شخصيتي:

إنسان محترم ووفي ويخاف الله سبحانه، أحب الصراحة والوضوح حتى لو في مشكلة تنحل، أهم شي ما تكون العلاقة مبنية على جذب

أحب الأجواء الرومنسية واللحظات الحلوة بين الطرفين، وأحب أفهم شريكتي وتفهمني

شخصيتي هادية جدًا وما أحب الإزعاج والصوت العالي

أحب العلوم والأشياء الفكرية، بس مو لازم أتكلم فيها إذا الطرف الثاني مو مهتم

مركز على دراستي، لكن إذا لقيت الشخص الصح أكيد بعطي العلاقة وقتها واهتمامها الكامل

وفي أشياء أكثر، بس هذي أغلبها

الأشياء اللي ما أتقبلها:

المبالغة بردات الفعل، عدم احترام كرامتي وحدودي كرجل، ضعف الشخصية بمعنى إن مو كل شي ينقال لها تمشي عليه وما تقدر تفرق بين الصح والغلط، اللعب بالمشاعر، والجذب

شنو أدور؟

أهم شي عندي الدين والشخصية

تكون إنسانة متفهمة وطيبة وتخاف ربها قبل أي أحد

وبالنسبة للشكل مو وايد يهمني، تكون طبيعية وتهتم بنفسها وهذا كافي بالنسبة لي

وأفضل تكون كويتية

هدفي علاقة محترمة وجدية تبدأ بالتعارف والكلام، وإذا الله كتب وكان بينا توافق تكمل للزواج

نبني مستقبلنا بإيدنا, بالحلوة والمرة مع بعض

أحترمها وتحترمني وتكون بينا مودة ورحمة بإذن الله

وبالمستقبل إن شاء الله عائلة صغيرة، يمكن 3 يهال

وأهم شي أنا أبي أسمي البنت ههههه

وآخر شي

أول سفرة لنا بإذن الله تكون مكة (كهديه مني هههه)🤍

يعطيكم العافية، والله يوفق الجميع بإذن الله تعالى

Age: 29

Origin (specify Bedouin or city dweller): Kuwaiti

Level of religiosity (1-10): 6-7 Shia

Occupation: works in Health care

Skin color: white (can’t eat spicy food 🤷‍♀️)

Genetic or chronic illnesses: nothing

Hobbies: I’m into reading almost every genre expect history or self help, tech/gaming (pc, 3ds, ps2, ps3 games), gym and sometimes crafting and plants

Anything else you want to add:
I’d say I’m interested in someone whose genuine and normal, has hobbies and things they like to do, it would be great if they share my interests in gaming and books too but it’s not a deal breaker for me if you aren’t but at least you must have something you like to do or some thing you’re fixated about

I’m not social, In fact I dislike social settings that is required every week, I know it’s a deal breaker for some but I can’t sit and fake smile (تعبت من المجاملة)

I’m very kept to myself and enjoy things in private, I do prefer someone Shia (but it’s not too strict about it but my parents might effy about it)

At last, I’m very chill and easy going in life, I want to have fun and nice partnership, not labour work or mental exhaustion

Deals-breakers:
- hate animals or pets
- very very traditional
- has weird mother/sister that is obsessed with him (I’m sorry i had to put this one, I’ve witness things that terrified me in شوفه الشرعيه ما ادري خطبة)
- weird about money and shorter than me (I’m 162 cm)
- married before or divorced

I know it’s this post in English probably gonna pissed off lots of people, but I want someone comfortable to talk to English and Arabic, to be able to talk more freely