r/KuwaitMarriage

They say awarness is essensial if you want to change a problem , and lets not fool ourselves and say this sub doesnt have any , so lets make this post a space to discuss whats wrong with this sub just for a chance to fix it .

From my prespactive , i think there is many problem that face this sub or any online platform that give you the chance to know people online :

too many options : it feels unreal at first , but would make you feel unsatisfy

Ghosting : its easier to ghost than to tell how you trully feel , especialy if its someone you disagree with

Not serious : many people here just want to pass time

Unrealistic demands : some people here are looking are looking for solution instead of marriage , they want someone to make thier life easier .

Share your thought

Hi everyone, I’m a Kuwaiti woman, born and raised, looking to get to know someone with marriage in mind.

A little about me: I’m a bit introverted, but I really enjoy good conversation when I feel comfortable with someone. I like gaming, reading, cafés, cozy nights in, and when the weather permits walking outdoors. I value honesty, emotional maturity, and being able to communicate openly.

I’m looking for a Kuwaiti Sunni man, preferably 30+ and أصيل. Someone gentle, respectful, emotionally intelligent, open-minded, and easy to talk to. I’m most comfortable with deeper conversations in English, so fluency matters to me.

I also dont see children as part of my future, so I’d prefer someone who is also childfree, considering it, or genuinely open to that lifestyle.

I don’t want to rush things. I’d prefer to chat first, get to know each other properly, and see if there’s real compatibility🌟

السلام عليكم، نقاش وموضوع حاب أفهم وجهة نظر الناس فيه، وأرجو إن الردود تكون بكل احترام وادب

لاحظت بالفترة هذي، وخلال جم سنة الي فاتت، إن تركيز البنات والشباب تغيّر بشكل واضح.

بالنسبة للبنات، ألاحظ إن الفلوس والمستوى المادي صاروا أولوية عند البعض. حتى قريت مرة وحدة تقول: «الدين والخلق ما راح يوكلني عيش». وصار موضوع الزواج عند البعض كأنه تجارة أو فرصة لتحسين مستوى المعيشة على افى الزوج او الزوجه

مثلاً:

أهلها دخلوها حكومة، تقول: انا أبي عيالي يدخلون خاص

أهلها ما يسفرونها، تقول: أنا أبي ألف العالم كله

أمها تساعد أبوها وتوقف معاه، واهي تقول لك: أنا ما أساعد زوجي بشي اهو مسؤول على كل شي عبالها انه بنك متحرك

يعني أشياء هي ما كانت تسويها ببيت أهلها، تتوقع إنها تكون حق مكتسب لها ببيت زوجها

وبنفس الوقت، أشوف بعض الشباب كل تركيزهم على الشكل والجسم، لدرجة ما يفكر يسأل: شنو أخلاقها؟ شنو شخصيتها؟ شنو معدنها؟ وهل فعلاً تصلح تكون شريكة حياة؟

فالمشكلة وين بالضبط؟ هل تغيرت معايير الزواج عند الجيل الحالي؟ وهل السوشال ميديا والمظاهر والمقارنات لها دور بهالشي؟

وهل للحين في ناس واعية تشوف الزواج شراكة ومودة ورحمة، مو مجرد فلوس وشكل ومظاهر؟

أتمنى أسمع آرائكم ، وبكل احترام للجميع.

Hello hello! I honestly don’t know where to start, but here we go 😂 Here’s a little introduction about me, and you can always reach out and ask me more things!

I absolutely LOVE animals, all and every type of animal, but especially cats 🥹. One of the things that genuinely makes me so happy is going around and feeding street cats in my free time. Because of that, it’s really important to me that the person I connect with loves animals and has that same kindness towards them.

I’m also a gamer 🎮. I spend a lot of my free time gaming and I play pretty much all different types of games. Some of my favorites are Overwatch, COD, Fortnite, Resident Evil, Elden Ring and Clair Obscur. I also LOVE co-op games, so having someone I can play with would definitely be a huge plus 😂.

When I’m not gaming, there’s a good chance I’m binge-watching something. I’m mostly into mystery, horror and thriller series/movies. I’m not really that into Marvel or DC, and romance isn’t usually my first choice either. I also LOVE anime!! Pretty much all types of anime, and I can easily get sucked into random YouTube storytelling videos for hours 😂.

Personality-wise, I’d say I can be a little shy at first, but once I’m comfortable with someone, that definitely changes 😂. I love joking around, being silly and having someone I can completely be myself with. I really value quality time, whether that means going out and doing something together or literally staying home all day gaming, watching something and ordering food.

I’m a very affectionate person and I love the little things in relationships. I want someone who feels like my best friend as well as my partner (someone I can joke with, annoy, gossip with, send random things to throughout the day, play games with, binge-watch things with and also have serious conversations with when needed.)

Gift giving is also a big thing for me. I genuinely love giving people gifts and seeing them happy because of something I bought, made or simply thought of for them. It has never been about the price tag for me. Even something tiny can mean so much if there was thought behind it. I’ve always been told that I’m a very giving person, so being with someone greedy or selfish would be difficult for me. I don’t expect someone to spoil me with expensive things..I just want that same thoughtfulness and giving nature to be mutual.

I also love children and would love to have at least two of my own one day. Having a happy, loving family is something that’s important to me, so I’m definitely looking for someone who is family-oriented and genuinely wants children too.

As for some basic information about me: I’m 24, Sunni, 100% Kuwaiti 🇰🇼 and 154 cm (yes, I’m short 😭😂).

As for what I’d like to see in a person: definitely a gamer, an animal lover, a giver and someone with a cute smile (don’t be shy to smile!!). Preferably taller than 170 cm, financially stable and responsible with money, but not stingy. Again, generosity to me isn’t about how much money you spend—it’s the thought and intention behind things that matter. And Kuwaiti Sunni is a must

Emotionally, I’d like someone who is kind, loyal, affectionate, emotionally mature and knows how to communicate. I really appreciate someone who isn’t afraid to show that they care, whether through words, actions or affection. I want to be able to communicate openly without everything turning into an argument, and I want both of us to feel comfortable expressing what we need from each other.

Ultimately, I’m looking for someone I can genuinely build a friendship, relationship and eventually a family with. Someone I can have fun with and be completely unserious around one minute, then have a deep conversation with the next. I want us to actually enjoy each other’s company, even when we’re doing absolutely nothing.

And of course, there’s WAY more to me than I can fit into one introduction, so feel free to ask me anything. 😂🤍

Edit : after a few conversations I’ve realized I need to list a few things 🥹 Kuwaiti Sunni حضري is a must, has a stable paying job, somewhat (even if it’s a little) religious, talks both English and Arabic, and willing to go on a friendship/relationship for a short period of time so we can connect emotionally without any intimacy.
For people who wanna play with me, dm me your discord!

Guyssss 😭🥹 I’m the eldest daughter, and my younger sister is getting married, inshallah, in about six months!!

She’s the first person in our family to get married, and we’re not really close with our cousins, so I honestly have NO idea what my duties are as her older sister 😭😂

I really want to make these six months special for her, support her, celebrate her, and make her feel happy and excited rather than stressed.
So please, especially married girls and older sisters, tell me everything you wish someone had told you before your sister got married! 🥺🤍

I’d especially love recommendations in Kuwait for:
👰🏻‍♀️ Bridal salons / hair & makeup
💅 Nails, spa, facials, etc.
👙 Lingerie & bridal pajamas
🌸 Wedding-day perfumes
🛍️ Bridal shopping & essentials
💐 Bridal shower / engagement ideas
🎁 Cute gifts and sister traditions
🧳 Honeymoon essentials
✨ Anything she should buy, book, prepare, or do before the wedding.

I’d be so grateful for any advice, recommendations, or little things you wish you had known. 🥺🤍

يقول المثل: سيروا بحياه الناس مثل الشكر... حتى اذا ذاب و راح يبقى حلو, الحقيقه ما ادري من وين ابلش ولكن في هذا الزمن انا اشوف ان العلاقات صايره وايد مصلحجيه يعني البنت تكلم الريال سنين او اشهر و بالاخير كل هذا عشان تتزوجه, الصراحه عيب , ف انا ما امانع باي نوع من العلاقات اهم شي ما يكون في تخطيط let things go alone.

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته، عساكم بخير إن شاء الله

البوست رح ينمسح تاريخ 25-8

رح أنزل واحد بالإنجليزي للي حاب

رديت نزلته لانه علق الحساب

العمر ٢١ على نوفمبر، وطولي ١٧٨ سم. عماني من جهة أبوي وكويتي من جهة أمي، مواليد الكويت وعايش فيها، وأهلي من زمان ساكنين فيها. سني، وما عندي مشكلة إذا كانت شيعية، ما أفرق بهالشي

باقي لي سنة وأتخرج من هندسة الكمبيوتر بإذن الله، وبعدها ناوي أكمل دراستي العليا بإذن الله

شخصيتي هادئة جدًا، وأحب الصراحة والوضوح والاحترام والراحة. وأخاف الله سبحانه قبل كل شيء. بالنسبة لي العلاقة الناجحة تقوم على الحوار والتفاهم والثقة والراحة بين الطرفين. ما أحب الخيانة أو اللعب بالمشاعر أو الجذب بدون سبب. أبي الطرفين يكونون مرتاحين مع بعض ويقدرون يتكلمون عن أي شيء بصراحة واحترام ويكون نفسه غير مايحس انه ثقيل على الطرف الاخر

أحب الأجواء الرومانسية واللحظات الحلوة بين الطرفين. أبي أفهم شريكتي وتفهمني، وتكون علاقتنا مبنية على المودة والرحمة والاحترام

أحب الألعاب والأنمي والأفلام وكرة الطائرة والجاز والحداق والسوالف العميقة. وأحب أجرب أشياء جديدة، خصوصًا مع الشخص الصح. أنا شوي بيتوتي، فأحب القعدة بالبيت لكن بنفس الوقت أحب نطلع ونجرب أشياء يديده مع الشخص الصح

حاليًا مركز على دراستي ومستقبلي، وبإذن الله بكمل دراستي العليا، لكن إذا لقيت الإنسانة المناسبة بعطي العلاقة حقها من الوقت والاهتمام

هدفي واضح. أبي علاقة محترمة وجدية تنتهي بالزواج بالحلال إذا الله كتب النصيب، خلال فترة قصيرة نسبيًا حسب اللي يناسب الطرفين. أبي نبني بيت هادي ومستقبلنا مع بعض، ونكون سند لبعض بالحلوة والمرة وعادي نكمل دراستنا ونحاول مع بعض 

أدور إنسانة تخاف الله قبل أي شيء، طيبة، متفهمة، محترمة وواضحة. عندها قناعة ومبادئ، تعرف تميز بين الصح والغلط، وما تمشي ورا الناس بدون تفكير

أفضل تكون بعمر ١٨–٢٣، ويفضل تكون محجبة و كويتية

ما أتوقع أحد يكون كامل، وأنا بعد مو كامل. اللي يهمني هو طريقة تعاملنا مع بعض وطريقة حلنا للمشاكل. ما أحب المبالغة في ردات الفعل. أشوف إن المشاكل تنحل بالحوار الهادي والاحترام. أنا بحترم حدودها وكرامتها، وأتمنى منها نفس الشيء

الشكل بالنسبة لي مو أهم شيء. يهمني تكون طبيعية وتهتم بنفسها وعندها شخصية حلوة. إذا ما تحط مكياج فهذا أفضل بالنسبة لي، لكن ما عندي مشكلة إذا تحط بالمعقول لانه اتفهم. بالنهاية يهمني الشخص نفسه أكثر من الشكل

إذا كنتي إنسانة مادية، غير قنوعة، أو تهتمين بكلام الناس أكثر من حياتج وراحتج، لا تتعبين نفسج معاي

أبي إنسانة تقدر النعمة وما تقارن حياتنا باستمرار بحياة غيرنا. بالنسبة لي الزواج شراكة ومودة ورفقة، مو منافسة أو مظاهر أو مقارنة بالناس

أبي نطمح للأفضل ونشتغل على حياة أحسن مع بعض، لكن بنفس الوقت نكون قنوعين ونقدر اللي عندنا. لا أنا رح أتعبج معاي ولا أبيج تتعبيني معاج. أبي نكون عون لبعض ونكبر مع بعض ونخلي حياة بعض أسهل

وفي شيء مهم أبي أوضحه من البداية. أمي معاي. اهي كانت موجودة معاي طول عمري، وكل إخواني وأخواتي تزوجوا، ومستحيل أهدها. وبنفس الوقت، أكيد حياتنا الزوجية ومشاكلنا بيني وبين زوجتي، وما راح تتدخل في حياتنا أو مشاكلنا، لأن هذي حياتنا إحنا واهي تتفهم هل شي. فإذا هالشيء مو مناسب لج، غالبًا ما راح نكون مناسبين لبعض

هذا تقريبًا كل شيء. أنا مو أدور على شيء مؤقت أو مجرد تضييع وقت. أبي شيء صادق وجدي ومحترم، ويكون الزواج هو الهدف إذا الله كتب لنا النصيب

وشكرًا على وقتكم وقراءة البوست، والله يكتب للجميع الشخص الصح ويرزقكم حياة فيها مودة ورحمة

صراحه لاحظت بالفتره الاخيره قصص من أقارب وأصدقاء " ما يعرفون بعض " انهم يتقدمون حق بنت ويكون قبلها في قبول او إشارات ايجابيه ويقول لها ابي أتقدم لج وتوافق و يخطبها والأمور تمام بس فجأه البنت ترفض وبعضهم حتى ترفض مع بلوك حتى من غير ذكر الأسباب ف الكل مستغرب ان هالظاهره منتشره.

هل هذا سببه الخوف او الرهبه ان الزواج قرب؟ ولا اهو لعب بالرجال تالي تكسر فيه؟ ولا تبي تختبره او تبي تشوف إذا راح يرد يبين ان يبيها وشاريها لانها مو متطمنه او مو مرتاحه؟

يا ليت خواتنا البنات يقولون لنا إذا سمعوا نفس هالقصص من رفيجاتهم ولا قريباتهم؟

نبي نسمع رايكم

About Me:
Demographics: 32 years Chinese Muslim , divorced, mother of 2.
Physical: 172 cm (5'8"), 63 kg, active & fit.
Family Goals: My family is complete — I am not looking to have more children.
Lifestyle: Love fitness, sports, and outdoor activities. Warm, responsible, and practical.
Looking For:
Ethnicity: Arab brother.
Age & Height: 30–42 years old, taller than 172 cm.
Marital Status: Divorced with children or Children with ur ex wife.
Requirements: Practicing, deeply responsible, family-oriented, active/outdoorsy, and aligned on having no more children.
Goal:
Looking for a serious, respectful, responsible one, if u r please DM me

الجنسية: كويتي تأسيس من عائلة حضرية اصيلة

( i know it's a sensitive topic for some but i have to mention it because i know some of the families only accept this)

المذهب : سني

مستوى التدين : 8/10

التعليم : ماجستير هندسة

وظيفة مستقرة والحالة المادية جيدة ولله الحمد

الطول 170 والوزن 67 (رياضي)

non-smoker no genetic illness and never been married before

likes : gym , workouts , walks , travelling , nature, animals, games, anime , music , reading

looking for : Kuwaiti girl (جنسية اولى) حضرية سنية

age : 24-29

someone i can be best friend with who has similar interests and we can have good conversations and laugh together , compatible and same religious level , mutual respect, compassionate , understanding and willing to start a family and have kids eventually.

مستوى التدين 10/١٠

العمر : 2002

جنسيه اولى تاسيس

مذهب : كويتي(ما عندنا سوالف سني و شيعي و ملحد كلنا كويتيين)

الهوايات : سباحة ، سفر

أبي عيال و احب العيال

ادور على زوجه الاحلام : مواصفاتها

مو متدينه

بدون

تعرف ترقص حتى لو رقصها عادي

يفضل تكون مطلقه

تكون لا بيضه ولا سمره

ابيها طولي او اطول مني بشوي (للعلم طولي 175)

أغبط اللي تزوجوا عن حب، أو على الأقل كانوا يعرفون بعض قبل الزواج.

كل ما يتقدم لي شخص، أصلي استخارة مرة ومرتين وثلاث،، بس يظل داخلي سؤال: هل هذا فعلًا الشخص الصح؟

شلون الواحد يعرف إن الشخص اللي جدامه مناسب؟
مو كامل، ولا مثالي، بس الشخص اللي أقدر أقول معاه: إي، هذا الإنسان اللي أبي أكمل معاه حياتي.

ومرات أفكر… هل المفروض أصلًا أحس بيقين؟ ولا الطبيعي إن قرار مثل الزواج يظل فيه جزء من الخوف والشك مهما كان الشخص مناسب؟

21M
Kuwaiti
182cm
77kg
Urban
Sunni

I graduate med school in 3 years inshallah. I like sports, working out, gaming, traveling, cooking, and reading.

I value good communication and spending quality time with my loved ones.

I'm looking for a woman who is smart, emotionally intelligent, has a kind heart and a good personality. I want her to be supportive and share my journey in life.

Send me a dm stating your age and where you're from, and talk about yourself.

Assalamu Alaikum, I hope everyone’s doing well, inshaAllah

This post will be deleted on 25-8 I reposted it because it glitched

I’ll be 21 in November, and I’m 178 cm tall. I’m Omani from my dad’s side and Kuwaiti from my mom’s side. I’m Sunni, but I don’t mind Shia, I don’t really care about that. I was born and raised in Kuwait, and my family has been living here for a very long time

I have one year left until I graduate with a degree in Computer Engineering, inshaAllah, and I’m planning to continue with my Master’s afterward, inshaAllah

I’m a very chill person, and I value honesty, clear communication, respect, and peace. I put God before anything else. To me, a successful relationship is built on communication, understanding, trust, and feeling comfortable with each other. I don’t believe in cheating, emotional games, or lying for no reason. I want both people to feel comfortable being themselves and to be able to talk about things openly and respectfully

I love romance vibes and the little sweet moments between two people. I want to understand my partner, and I want her to understand me. I want the relationship to be built on love, mercy, respect, and peace

I’m into gaming, anime, movies, volleyball, jazz, fishing, and deep conversations. I also love trying new things, especially with the right person. I’m a bit of a homebody, so I’m perfectly happy staying home and enjoying our time together, but I also like going out and experiencing new things with someone I’m comfortable with

Right now, I’m focused on my studies and my future, but if I meet the right woman, I’ll definitely make time for her and give the relationship the attention it deserves

My goal is pretty simple. I’m looking for a serious and respectful relationship that leads to marriage within a relatively short period, depending on what works for both of us. I want a peaceful home where we can build our future together and be there for each other through both the good and bad days

As for the person I’m looking for, I want a woman who fears God above everything and is kind, understanding, respectful, and straightforward. I like someone with a strong personality in the right way, someone who has her own values and principles, knows right from wrong, and doesn’t just follow people without thinking for herself

I prefer someone between 18–23, and hijabi is better. I’d also prefer someone who’s Kuwaiti

I don’t expect someone to be perfect, and I’m not perfect either. What matters to me is how we treat each other and how we deal with problems. I don’t like lying, emotional games, or overreacting to everything. I believe problems should be talked through calmly and respectfully. I’ll respect her boundaries and dignity, and I expect the same in return

Looks aren’t a huge deal to me. I care more about someone being natural, taking care of herself, and having a good personality. It’s good if she doesn’t wear makeup, but I don’t mind a bit of it either. I’m more interested in who someone is as a person than trying to find someone who fits a certain appearance

At the same time, I know what kind of relationship I don’t want. If you’re very materialistic, never satisfied, or care more about what people think than about your own life and peace of mind, please don’t waste your time with me

I want someone who appreciates what she has and doesn’t constantly compare our life to other people’s lives. I believe marriage is a partnership built on love and companionship, not competition, status, or appearances

I want us to work toward a better life together while still being grateful for what we have. I won’t make your life harder, and I don’t want you making mine harder either, inshaAllah. I want us to support each other, grow together, and make life easier for one another

There’s also one important thing I want to be clear about from the beginning. My mom comes with the package. She’s always been there for me, and all my siblings are married. There’s no way I’m leaving her behind. I’m not saying she would interfere in our marriage or that there wouldn’t be boundaries, but she is an important part of my life and that isn’t something I’m willing to change, but ofc she won't intefear with our problems or life it's our life

So if you’re not okay with that, we probably won’t be a good match

That’s pretty much it. I’m not looking for something temporary or just to pass the time. I’m looking for something genuine, serious, and respectful, with marriage being the end goal if Allah writes it for us

Thank you for taking the time to read this, and may Allah bless everyone with the right person

Genuine question, shouldn’t posting here be limited to people who actually live in Kuwait😭?

Like if you live in Poland what exactly are we doing here
You’re looking for marriage in Kuwait from another continent 💀

At that point this isn’t r/KuwaitiMarriage it’s r/InternationalShipping

I feel like Kuwait residents only just makes way more sense and saves everyone’s time.

سؤال للشباب من ١٩ الى ٢٨ و ما سبق له الزواج. تتزوج ارملة/ مطلقة؟ معاها عيال او بدون عيال.

I'm a 29 year old Kuwaiti man. Shia. جنسية اولى Looking for something serious.

A little about me: I'm 178 cm tall. 76 kg.

I'm an English teacher, and I teach middle school. I'm into video games, books, sports (I play, but I don't really watch any), cooking.

I'm a very responsible adult. I take care of my family, and I'm always there when they need me.

Been trying for years through traditional means, but unfortunately my mom has a condition that doesn't let her go far away from home.

So, I'm looking for someone, shia, same age as me or even a bit younger, that lives somewhere close to Jaber Al Ahmad. Preferably Jaber Al Ahmad.

DM if you're interested, or even if you have questions about me.

Good day, I have developed Embur, a collective social media app, like instagram, snapchat, tiktok, X, Zoom, and Ai all in one!

Do you think such an app will cut the clutter? People start using one app?

An app that has it all, even a shop to sell items and ai studio to create post and monetize. Do you think this is what we need? Or what people need beyond being stuck in the habit of using same old apps?

Do you think there is anything i can change? Your opinion matters alot!!

عندي سوال للمهندسين اللي يشتغلون بالكهرباء والماي جم رواتبهم ؟؟