u/Civil-Sentence-9216

عندي سوال للمهندسين اللي يشتغلون بالكهرباء والماي جم رواتبهم ؟؟

hey everyone,
I want to have an open honest discussion.

I am getting myself my first car ever -kinda-
my daddy already got me one at 18 that I didn’t like bc it was more functional and another at 20 when he trusted more
and I ended up not driving either much because I don’t even go out much or at all tbh just gym/work and mostly the driver takes me 💔 he still has both so he suggests he sells them and get myself a new car one that I pick for myself because the first two he chose for me 😭I still love him though.
I agree that first I don’t need three cars when I don’t even go out much andddd Im going to pick this car myself! Yay!

however I’ve been going out slowly more often it’s been a goal of mine to socialize a bit more and I think a new car could help me do that in a way.

listen budget is not the issue if you guys honestly think something like a Mercedes is the way to go I’ll get it.
but I want something girly, something small and cute also comfortable and will last me minimum 5 years.

I’m 23 I can’t keep buying cars every 2-3 years 😂😂👍🏻

I’ve been looking at fiat and mini coopers they’re so so cute for a petite girl like myself I want to choose a white exterior or a black one maybe??

I don’t know is it safe? I don’t know anything about cars
Also a Porsche is cute but the sports one is too manly and the bigger ones are too “sports mom” and I want to be one just not yet, def get that one once I’m married though!
Anyways,
I’ve also look at bmw the new line has incredible interior but the exterior not too much- & the maintenance is a bit crazy and again it’s manly and also it’s very common-
I want something girly cute and fun but safe and also small like not a big car

And do not suggest tesla ew ew no way!

I don’t care if it’s a expensive one or an Asian car
I don’t care about status and I don’t have a budget

Let me know

Ps: I heard a Lexus is good also but anyways LMK!

In our society a man is assigned a certain role and so is a woman
not that I hate on it I don’t really mind it but I have always struggled to fit in

I dont know how else to put it but I’ve always find it bothersome when a man is “controlling, dominant” in my head it doesn’t make sense for him to have that much authority unless there is a reason behind it and a good argument but “I’m a man because” isnt good enough for me.

My daddy was — wait I’m a major daddy’s princess and I love him a lot I’ll just say that. But he always gave me freedom of choice and then when I came onto the world and realised, huh.. not all men are like that.

Tbh I find it more natural for me to lead, to “dominate” an example for this is you’d have to ask permission for me to let you do certain stuff like go out late at night but I don’t really have to..

Yeah I know what a double standard
I am super feminine btw my looks and style and even voice sounds very feminine but in a twist I just feel natural in that role.

hate me or whatever but idrc what anyone thinks because marriage isn’t a necessity for me either
I’m living my life and if I’m going to get married it will be to a man that is my type

But I just thought to have an open discussion-
And to know do men like more prone to being lead exist?

will men marry a woman that can’t cook?