Ladies, don't have low standards, but be realistic
IMPORTANT EDIT: I am not asking anyone to lower their standards, it doesn't mean you're a bad person if you have high standards, it doesn't mean you're a good person if you have low standards, this is just some info and numbers about what's going on with real life so you be realistic, you can still have unrealistic standards while knowing what reality is, it means you know your odds and you're fine with that, which is good.
I see in the comments/posts in this community some things that indicate that girls here are so detached from reality, you should absolutely have good standards but also you should think about what good standards should mean.
Let's talk some numbers (and some misleading numbers)
Do you know that the average salary in the public sector is 10.000dh/month? Sounds good wlkn it's misleading (I have a PhD in data science and this is basic statistics), the average is misleading because let's assume this situation, we have a service in a idara 3omomya where 4 technicians get 5000dh each, and chef de service gets 20.000 (this is normal btw), bhal lhala the average is 8000, wlkn one person skews the results where most people fhad lhala make only 5000, avg is 8000 wlkn median is 5000
I don't have official numbers for the median salary f public sector is ghaykon by my estimations f 6000 ta9riban.
Hada ghir public sector, anchofo daba kolchi, and these are confirmed numbers, don't ask me for source a simple google search will do.
The avg salary fl mghrib is around 6000dh, wlkn glna avg is misleading, median is what represents what most people make (google the difference between average and median)
Median salary fl mghrib is around 3000/month, which means more than half the working people flmghrin get 3000 or less, let that sink in.
All this to say, 5k is a decent salary, 6k is a decent salary, 10k is the top earners fl mghrib, I also don't have a source to back this up wlkn I can say this with good confidence, ready? 15k/ month make you the top 1% of earners flmghrib, how does that feel?
So mli bghiti tzwji wahd kaydkhl >15k fchhar, you're looking for 1 in a 100.
Please don't take this as hating, and yes these numbers masawyin walo for the lifestyle you see on Instagram, wlkn dkchi is not real, it's social media, it's toxic, and you're fat according to social media, while in reality, you're good looking.
You also have the right to have any kind of standards you want, wlkn just know that what you're looking for might be 1 in thousands of men.
Another thing, the average age of owning a house ghaykon ktar mn 40, so if you want a young guy that owns a house, you're being unrealistic.
Here's an exercise for you, find out how much your father makes, now think that he's over 60 (laytwl lih f3mro) and had 40 years to build his income, and is still less than what you want your husband to make.
Please don't get me wrong, I love our women, wlkn ghi I talk to girls (for the intention of hopefully marriage) and I find out that they are expecting some things li very far from reality, I'm 30, have a PhD, make decent money, wlkn what I go to social media, I feel like I haven't achieved anything.
One last thing I wanna say, and hate me for it if you want, a 25y.o guy who is god fearing and makes 5000dh is a good husband material, 3ad badi hyato, and in 10 years time will be making what earns him a decent life.
Rkhfo 3lina albnat