u/hienaras

Guys I need some outer perspective

So three and half weeks back went on date with a guy off hinge. Dinner date. He was a decent guy, some commonalities. No sparks flying or insane connection or anything like that but nice.

For the past three weeks been trying to organise a second date. The first week we were both kinda busy but then since he’s so busy with work and his new house reno stuff that its hard to schedule a second meeting. We were supposed to meet this wednesday evening but some house reno/work stress came up again and he requested we reschedule to next week

My question is is this is sign he aint really interested. I feel like if you were really interested in the girl then you’d make some time even for a simple coffee date?

I am also a bit concerned if this may be the trajectory if I pursue this guy, that he will continue to be too busy for me in the future.

I aint even really that crazy into him. I feel like with me it takes a while to feel some sort of emotional connection anyways, and its still super early, should I just cut my losses?

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u/hienaras — 4 days ago