Getting old and feeling lonely as a gay guy
Hi guys, I'm almost 28 years old and I've been single my whole life. Honestly, it took me a long time to accept that I'm gay, and I feel like I wasted my youth not going out to explore and meet new people.
I've been trying to find a partner every now and then, mostly on dating apps, but it feels like a wasteland, and there aren't many people, especially in tiny Singapore. I also connect much better with people in real life and believe that pictures don't do anyone's personality justice, and I feel extremely superficial on apps when that's really not who I am in person.
I've been contemplating going to clubs for the longest time, but I don't drink, I don't like loud music and don't vibe or dance to them, and I hate staying out past midnight ._. I've also looked into local queer groups, but they're either for older demographics or student groups, neither of which fits what I'm looking for.
Does anyone have any suggestions on where or how I can find a partner? (Though I've somewhat prepared myself to live and die alone T.T)