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Hej med jer

Jeg er så heldig, at min partner er begyndt at give mig flere blowjobs uden der er sex involveret. Kun blowjob til mig til jeg kommer.

Hun er god til det, og elsker når hun fx slikker min kugler. Tidligere kunne jeg ikke holde så længe under blowjobs, men nu hvor det sker oftere, har jeg nemmere ved at kontrollere udløsningen.

Det er typisk med hende på knæ, og jeg enten ligger ved sengekanten eller jeg står op.

I går prøvede vi, mens hun lå ned i sengen og jeg så bare gik til den ned i halsen på hende, så hun gaggede flere gange. Det var ret frækt.

Jeg søger alligevel noget inspiration til at spice det lidt op, så der kommer noget variation. det er dejligt uanset hvad, men føler nogen gange, hvis hun bare går i gang med at sutte med det samme, at det ikke er lige så dejligt, som hvis det går lidt mere stille.

Til de heldige af jer der får blowjobs - hvad nyder i ved det? Er der noget variation i kan lide eller bare klassisk.

jeg kunne godt tænke mig at prøve hvor det blive rigtig vådt, og hun bare savler ud over min pik, men hun har ikke så meget spyt at arbejde med - nogen tips her?

Alle tips modtages med kyshånd - en ny rejse er startet - så det kan kun blive bedre! :D

Hej med jer

Min partner og jeg kom til at snakke lidt om sådan en slags straffeleg, efter at jeg jokede lidt med at hun skulle have en straf, fordi hun ikke havde opført sig pænt. Hun hoppede med på joken, og vi grinte lidt af det bag efter. Hun fik ikke nogen straf - men tanken gjorde mig tændt. Jeg spurgte hende, og hun synes også det var lidt spændende.

Vores sexliv er meget basic, alm sex, oral til mig, finger til hende. Hun kan ikke lide at blive slikket, og er ikke til anallege.

Jeg har prøvet at tænke ind i hvordan vi kunne indføre sådan en leg, uden det overskrider hendes grænser, men kunne godt bruge et par ideer. Jeg ved godt jeg kan spørge hende - men det hjælper ikke altid så meget, da det typisk er mig, der skal komme med ideerne.

Den straf vi jokede med var, at hun skulle sidde på knæ - nøgen - når jeg kom hjem, og så give mit et blowjob.

Straffen kan også være den anden vej - så hvordan skal jeg straffes.

Håber på et par gode ideer.

Edit* about the ziyarah, she dosent see it as haram or say no forever. but because they are small , she wont let them for now. So my big point is ok i can live with the tatbir, but that she is not cooperation when it gets to things like ziyarah break my heart. What have i done to my kids.

And for the leave the kids part - i will never leave them - i mean with a divorce we will live in two poaces. Thats what i meant.

Long post, but I needed to get this off my chest. I didn’t know where else to say it.

I’m Shia and married a Sunni woman. My family (parents and siblings) are very religious Shias — they attend all majalis and commemorations, believe in tatbir, go on ziyarat, etc.

I got married at a young age because I was honestly going down a bad path in life. I had friends who drank, partied, and I was involved in that lifestyle too. I thought marriage would help save me from that environment and give me stability.

Alhamdulillah, today I’m a much better person. I pray all 5 prayers, I stopped drinking, and I try to take my deen seriously.

Before marriage, I had one condition: if we had children, she wouldn’t interfere with their religious upbringing. She had one condition too: that I would never perform tatbir.

We’ve now been married for 10 years. It’s been very up and down, and honestly a lot of our problems have come from family issues where, to be fair, she often has a point.

But when it comes to deen, my heart feels heavy.

In some ways I regret marrying outside my sect, even though she is genuinely a wonderful woman and an amazing mother.

She doesn’t want our children going to the mosque on the 10th of Muharram because she wants them to avoid seeing tatbir. She doesn’t want me taking them on ziyarat either.

And the promise I made about tatbir hurts me too. I don’t necessarily feel the need to do it every year, but knowing that if one day I’m overwhelmed with grief and want to express it that way, I can’t — because of my promise — weighs heavily on me.

I feel foolish for thinking I could eventually bring her closer to the love and understanding of Ahlulbayt (AS).

She understands some parts of Shia Islam, but she doesn’t really understand why mourning and devotion to Ahlulbayt means so much to me.

Lately we’ve also been having more issues regarding family and the upbringing of the children. She never had a problem with me taking them to majalis generally, only specifically on the 10th of Muharram where tatbir happens.

I genuinely don’t know what the right thing is anymore.

Do I stay patient, continue the marriage, and try to make the best of it for the sake of our children and the good we still have together?

Or is it better to leave and eventually find someone more compatible with me religiously — someone I can openly practice my deen with, mourn with, talk about Ahlulbayt with, go on ziyarat with, and raise children with in that environment?

But the thought of leaving my children breaks me. I feel like I would be betraying them over what could be seen as selfish reasons. At the same time, I feel spiritually suffocated not being able to fully practice my deen peacefully in my own home without constantly walking on eggshells.

Long post, but I needed to get this off my chest. I didn’t know where else to say it.

Jeg har set nogen videoer hvor fissen strammer godt om pikken under sex og kommer sådan lidt ud når manden går ud. Er der nogen der har noget erfaring med om det er grundet tyk pik, kvindens anatomi eller fordi hun strammer?