Should i tell a gf about her cheating bf?
I met up with a guy a earlier this week. He told me he was single and kept asking me if we would meet ect he said that we didnt even have to hook up. It would have been a casual relationship situation.
He asked me to meet on monday and we did. He brought me to his apartment where he lives with his roomates and there he initiated sex. When i went back home i realised that i forgot my phone so i logged into my insta through my laptop but he wouldnt reply to me. Then i called one of his friends who i was somehow talking to a few while back so i figured that was most likely his friend and when i called him he seemed kind of upset to know i was over and asked what we did. Then said they found my phone and will give it back.
A bit after the friend asked me if we had sex. I said no thinking it is about respect of their space but actually he asked me if i knew that he was in a relationship. I didnt. I was able to go pick up my phone the next day and saw the gf was trying to follow me on insta. Since now she tried to follow me multiple times and i said i wont contact her. The friend is telling me i shouldnt contact both of them cause he is trying to repair his relationship. I kind of dont want the drama since i have been caught up in similar situations before but not exactly the same, it is the first time i encountered full on cheating even physical. Idk if i should choose my peace. I feel bad that the gf might get manipulated by him cause he will try to minimise what he did . Maybe if i knew he had a gf but she didnt know about him it would have been different where i would have just moved on but she is looking for answers it seems. I know i have nothing to do with it and i dont owe anyone anything but maybe she needs to know for her safety since we did use protection but he asked me if i had another way of contraception before deciding to use it.