My 23F boyfriend 26M took me out to eat at a restaurant and one of the waitresses walked in the men’s bathroom why isn’t he answering my questions?
My boyfriend and me have been together 3 years last night he took me out to eat yesterday and when he came back he told me a waitress went into the men’s washroom he said she saw nothing and was just washing his hands she said “ is there anyone else in here” and he said no. I went to the washroom right after cause I wanted to see why she was going in there so I went towards the women’s washroom right next to the men’s and saw her so I asked her and said “ are you the one who’s going in the mens bathroom cause my man was in there “ she said “ he was just washing his hands “ and she had a sign she was going to put up saying one of the sinks is broken. There’s male staff that work there what is she doing in there? What if he wasn’t “ just washing his hands “ if it was the other way around it would’ve been way different if a man was in the women’s bathroom I feel like 100% they would’ve sent a women to go in the women’s bathroom not a man so why can a women go in the men’s and it’s just supposed to be whatever.. I asked him cause it’s really bothering me and he told me to stop bringing it up not really telling me the exact conversation he’s saying don’t bring it up or I’ll leave (to take space and go to his dads house for a bit) why can’t he just tell me exactly what was said if he knows it’s bothering me he usually never has an issue with reassuring me. I don’t know what to do about this I don’t know if I’m being too insecure, how can I move past this without him telling me details about it?
TL;DR waitress walked in on my boyfriend in the bathroom