u/iamsureaboutthat

I say it because both of the sides have demands. You guys continue your causes like: "Oh you did ethnic cleansing to me and your country benefits it for generations, pay for it!" , "Oh no, you did to me and you still continue for it, you also have an active terror organisation!" bla bla bla...

It's impossible to be together unless you start to live your pain inside and don't blame any nation for it loudly. Most of the individuals see their nations as the part of their identities. And noone would want to accept the part of their identity is dirty due to the something they cannot have control on it. Or they wouldn't want to pay taxes for reparations when their economy is fucked up. I don't say "forget what happened", I just say "don't talk it loudly to the face of people of the nation you think did these bad history if you want a peace". Just it, otherwise you can't prove your causes to each other and it makes the peace impossible.