u/ice_man69

What’s your go to date night movie?

I (30m) started seeing this guy (42m) back at the start of April. Was fun and I enjoyed talking with him. But it felt like a battle to talk with him outside of the dates. Fast forward to last weekend when I asked if he just wanted a chill night in so we could actually get to know each other better and he left me on read and haven’t heard anything since. So I’m just over it and going to move on. But I don’t want to say anything until he reaches out first. Am I being petty or is it just a mutual ghosting at this point?

Hello, I (30m) started to see someone (42m) and he asked to be boyfriends and I said yes. But we’ve only seen each other once since then (it was April 13 when he asked) and there is very little communication in between dates. I find myself always the one texting first and trying to converse more but he gives very little back. Is he just super introverted or is this a red flag? How often are you talking with someone in the beginning stages of a relationship? TIA

Seeking some advise for my situation. I have never had a serious ltr and I started seeing this guy. He asked me to be in a monogamous relationship 2 weeks ago. But we havent hung out since. I’ve tried to set something up a few times and he canceled on me once. Also a couple of times I’ve texted him it went completely unanswered. And I find myself always the one reaching out first. I’m just having a hard time here about what to do next. I like him but it feels like I’m putting in more effort but he was the one to ask for the relationship.