How to make sure an esfj likes me back?
I'm an intp Okey, (I know I know I have a low Fe and so on) I work in a hospital, and this esfj nurse is hugely popular among patients and workers, he's nice to everyone but he's extra nice to me or so I think, he brings me food and drinks when I work late, but he also brings to his best friend at work too so I don't know..he comes and goes to my office even when it's not something necessary but he probably just likes to roam around during his free time, he's super sweet and pronounces my name the way I like it 😭💢💓( I have a difficult name for pronunciation ) he makes me want to be nice too I even unconsciously started taking care of my looks lol
How to make sure I'm not being delulu, being nice isn't usually an enough attraction but he's so my type both physically and in personality I don't want to ruin my reputation and let people talk about me I want to work peacefully.😭
I don't want him to notice too but I can't say no to him when he asks me anything (I'm responsible of the hospital clinical resources but he usually takes medication for poor patients not himself even though it's prohibited sometimes adorable beautiful human being 😭💓)