u/im_averag

Tried everything possible to quit fapping but I just can't ...

The longest I have gone without relapse is 1 month.

I feel like zina is the solution..

Feeling lost and need advice

I’m under financial pressure, trying to figure life out, and at the same time I’ve been struggling with pornography and masturbation for a while. I think it’s affecting how I see relationships and attraction. Part of me wants to find a wife and build something real, but another part of me is scared of commitment and even marriage itself.

What confuses me most is that I don’t really feel attracted to women the way I think I should. I don’t know if it’s stress, the porn, fear, or just being mentally exhausted.

I guess I’m asking if anyone has gone through something similar and how you got yourself out of that confused state.

What helped you clear your mind and actually move forward?