r/MuslimNoFap

Hey,

I am Kind of in a Shock right now. And sorry in advance for some Mistakes english is not my first language.

So i am 20f an still live with my parents and i do not know if this is sth that should concern me. I just found in my fathers search hostory porn Sites and i feel so incredebly weird about this. I have found it a few years ago however i was too young to really understand.

I have quiete a good relationship with my mother. I do not know if this is sth i should tell her. Do wifes usually know anyways? Will she tell my father that I am the one who found it? I do not even know how my mother will react we never really talk about Sexual stuff. I do not want to destroy our family. Maybe it is better to just Stay silent?

Any advice?

Salam guys. I’m not sure what to even do honestly. I feel so stuck. Like I want to watch haram things bc it makes me feel so good but I know it’s really bad for me. Can anyone help me? I feel so weak. I’m a failure I feel.

Reddit has ruined me ive seen too much especially muslim guys and muslim women. The zina is too much to handle...

I try to delete app , I try to block nsfw I keep coming back.

Salam everyone.

I feel deep regret every single time I commit this act. I genuinely dont know whats wrong with me. It might sound hypocritical but like I think im trying my best even if it sounds like I'm not. I hate this addiction so much but i cant stop. I havent prayed in so long. I always tell me self ill pray after I shower. Even after a shower I end up doing it again.

Im in a state of janabah nearly all day, everyday. Ive made dua but I dont see any changes and rightfully so. If im not praying why would i expect my duas to be accepted, im not special. I always tell myself "this is the last time" or "you literally feel terrible after, dont do it!" yet I still fall in and give in again. Last Ramadan I failed myself too. Everytime after iftar. Im so disconnected to my deen and scared im losing the path. I dont know what to do

I AM A GUY. NOT FEMALE

Salam guys,
I have recently decided to stop doing all of this haram. I’m such an addict I’d watch p for hours and still want more. I’d also get addicted to different fetishes which are totally haram but looking back I don’t know why I wasted my time doing so much haram when I could’ve used those hours bettering my self like reading Quran etc. I hope I can start a really good streak. If anyone is in the same situation and can help let me know and may Allah bless you all.

Assalamu Alaikum. I’m really struggling with this addiction for the past few months. It has reached a point where I’m concerned about my daily prayers. I fall into this sin at least once a day recently, and have been doing this for more than 7 years now. I want to talk to someone and InshaAllah start to progress through this journey. I just feel really weak sometimes even though I know Allah will accept any tawbah if I stick to my prayers seriously and try to stay away from this sin as much as possible. But the desires get so strong that sometimes consciously I go and do it. May Allah help us all and forgive our sins .

Assalamualaikum

Before that, my last streak was about a week. But since that week, I've gone more than a year without relapsing. Alhamdulillah!!!

It wasn't willpower. I simply cut my wifi connection at home and broke my Android phone's SIM card holder. I only use wifi at my office for WhatsApp and other things, and I use a button phone for calling. Now I think I'm no longer interested in those filthy things. Recently I learned this strategy is called the Ulysses Contract. (you may search about it)

But I've already waited too long (I'm already late). I turned 31 a few days ago. Please pray for me, that Allah forgives me and keeps me steadfast on the right path, and that He blesses me with a wife who will be best for me.

(I'm talking with a potential recently. I don't know what will happen.Keep me in your prayer 🙂🙂🙂)

https://www.reddit.com/r/MuslimNoFap/s/tIhNbW58nb

I posted this 6 days ago and since then I had been clean up until a couple hours ago I ended up relapsing again Wallahi I feel like a scum I missed two of my salahs today aswell I had cried tears in my dua yesterday asking Allah swt to forgive me for the times I had done this sin but then today I ended up going bak to the same sin. My heart can’t take it anymore this past week when I was praying I barely felt the tranquility I miss my old iman I’m crying as I type this message , this sin has ruined my life